回顧一下我的博士經歷【轉載】

發信人: Sp2018 (任盈盈), 信區: Faculty

標 題: 回顧一下我的博士經歷

發信站: BBS 未名空間站 (Thu Jun 27 12:25:37 2019, 美東)

1）首先，昨天，我發現了一份信： 2009年7月5日，我給我博士老闆發了這樣一封信：

XXX wrote:

> Jon,

> I dont want this phd title to humiliate me, my husband, and my next

generation. I want to be a mom only.

> See you no more.

> Take care

> XXX.

> Thanks

所以,是我自己quit PhD的。我老公說，我老闆報警。我是9號被警察攔下車，發現我沒

有駕照，我被送到醫院的。從此我的人生軌跡改變了。

2）2009年7月17日，我給我在密西根的教母寫了這樣的信。

"I was arrested by the policemen on July 9th, and stayed at the ED room of

Duke hospital for about 5 days. I was discharged yesterday. Life treats me

well. I am happy. I miss my old grandma and my old friend-niuniu at shanghai

. So we decide this short travel. My son has to return for school in

September".

我是如此的思念親人，希望有人能支持我。 看我今天給我的員工的信。

3）今天早上給我公司員工發的信。

「I finally realized that I had a mindset to look for justice, to get the

help. I should tell myself 10 years ago: 「 xx , move on!!! Focus on what

you want today and tomorrow. Those bad peoples will be punished by their own

behavior. That is none of your business. Respect the people around you now.

Don』t lose them again! 「

求神祝福我的公司，祝福我的孩子，祝福我在中國的親人。

為什麼我曾經老是自卑自己沒有拿到博士學位？ 因為我想回國，而回國必須有學位。

。。

為什麼我總是自憐自艾？ 因為我沒有機會。 上天如果再給我一次機會，我一定會用命

去努力，去奮鬥。。。

現在這個機會終於來了！ 我要去賣餃子。。。

哈哈哈。。

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