TED演講分享:No.1 如何成為一個更好的交談者?

TED演講分享:No.1 如何成為一個更好的交談者?

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成為更好的交談者的十條規則或建議:

演講者:Celeste Headlee

1、不要三心二意(Don』t multitask);

2、不要好為人師(Don』t pontificate);

3、使用開放性的問題(Use open-ended questions);

4、順其自然(Go with the flow);

5、如果你不知道,就說你不知道(If you don』t know, say that you don』t know);

6、不要把自己的經歷和別人比較(Don』t equate your experience with theirs);

7、別重複自己的話(Try not to repeat yourself);

8、少說廢話(Stay out of the weeds);

9、認真傾聽(Listen);

10、簡明扼要(Be brief)。

1. Everyone you will ever meet knows something that you don』t.——Bill Nye

2. True listening requires a setting aside of oneself.——M. Scott Peck

3. No man ever listened his way out of a job.——Calvin Coolidge

4. Most of us don』t listen with the intent to understand, we listen with the intent to reply.——Stephen Covey

5. A good conversation is like a miniskirt which is short enough to retain interest but long enough to cover the subject.

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