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男人為什麼要欺騙和撒謊？

It becomes seemingly impossible for women to figure out why do men cheat and lie. In fact, nobody has exact answers behind the psyche of men and why do they cheat. Still, some very evident reasons as why men cheat have been mentioned here.

女人似乎無法指出男人為什麼要欺騙和撒謊。事實上，他們為什麼要欺騙，除了這個男人自己知道，沒人可以給出準確的答案。然而，在這我們就給出了男人欺騙女人的幾個明顯的原因。

Marriages are failing miserably in the western countries. Going through shocking infidelity statistics and divorce statistics will reveal that divorce is now becoming more common than marriage. Relationship issues have compounded as divorce and infidelity share a deep interconnection. Women are unable to understand why do men cheat and lie, even when they"re trying to give their best. It seems cheating is deeply engraved in their DNAs. Is it really so?

非常不幸，西方國家的婚姻率越來越高。通過對無宗教信仰的統計和離婚統計，令人震驚的發現了離婚現在變得比結婚更加普遍。隨著離婚和無信仰之間越來越深的關聯，關係問題就形成了。女人們不能理解男人們為什麼要欺騙她們、對她們撒謊，甚至是當他們正努力的去給她們最好的的時候。似乎欺騙深深地印刻在了他們的DNA里。真的是那樣么？

Well, before I demystify various reasons as why men cheat in relationships, let me be very clear about this. Cheating is not a gender based phenomena and just like women wish to know why do men cheat, there are many men who wish to know the answer to the question, why do women cheat.

那麼，在我闡述各種各樣的關於男人為什麼在人際關係中喜歡欺騙的原因之前，讓我來把這個問題分析得更加透徹一些。欺騙並不是依據現象而只針對某個性別，就像女人想知道男人為什麼欺騙一樣，有很多男人也想知道這個問題的答案，女人為什麼要欺騙。

Just like there has been a Casanova, there has also been a Cleopatra. In fact, the main issue is that cheating in relationships has become a reality of 21st century and it true for both - females and males. When material fulfillment and communication is best in the 21st century, what makes people cheat? Certainly, we all wish God would some day come down to explain this million dollar question. In this article, however, my sole objective is to zero in on some reasons why men cheat.

就好比有了卡薩諾瓦，就有克利歐佩特拉一樣。事實上，主要的問題是人際關係當中欺騙已經成為21世紀的現實，同時對於男性和女性這都是事實。當21世紀擁有了物質的滿足感和最好的交流的時候，我們唯一的目標就是對準男人欺騙女人的原因。

Why do Men Cheat and Lie

男人為什麼要欺騙和撒謊？

Hundreds of thousands of psychologists have researched about why do men cheat and lie and still they haven"t given any concrete answers. I"m saying you that there are no concrete answers. It all depends on so many factors that it is not a cake walk to arrive at some fixed parameters as why do men cheat and lie.

成千上萬的心理學家對男人為什麼要欺騙和撒謊做了研究，然而他們還沒有給出任何具體的答覆。我要告訴你的是，沒有具體的答案。男人為什麼要欺騙和撒謊取決於很多因素，導致了很多混合的參數。

Emotional Affinity Tending to Zero

情感的密切關係趨於零

First few years of marriage are beautiful as it is seen from experiences of many couples but as complacency steps in, the relationship become dull and dry. Physical or emotional intimacy remains no more a priority for either of the partners and there is a numbness in the relationship and communication. Late working hours and extensive business tours become a reality. Lack of emotional connectivity hence brings drastic changes in the life of the married men. He wants a bit of pampering and love but not finding it in his wife, he turns to external sources. Consequently, he lies about his meetings and business tours and here steps in emotional cheating. As time passes, extra marital affairs pop up and women have only one question then, why do married men cheat?

從很多夫妻的身上我們都可以看到婚姻的頭幾年是很美妙的，但是隨著出現了滿足感，婚姻關係開始變得枯燥乏味。身體和心靈上的親密度對於夫妻中任何一方都不再有優先權了，夫妻關係和交流上開始變得麻木。長時間的工作和大量的出差成為了現實。感情上缺乏溝通最終導致了已婚男人生活上的猛烈變化。他想要點縱容和關愛但是卻在妻子身上找不到，於是他轉向了別處。因此他撒謊說他開會，說他出差了，這樣就導致了情感上的欺騙。隨著時間的流逝，外遇就出現了，隨後女人們就只有一個問題，已婚男人為什麼要欺騙她們？

This is Me; The Casanova Guy

這就是我；卡薩諾瓦男人

Some men simply don"t have the courage to carry a relationship forward and they just get married either because of sexual inclination or due to some other reasons. They"re least bothered about any emotional commitments and so for them, cheating is not a big deal. They love the race, the amazing thrill to chase girls, get hooked and then again look for someone else. The excitement of getting in a new relationship successively is also one of the reasons why men cheat on women. I"m sorry for such men because they really don"t have anything in their mind except a distorted idea about relationships.

有的男人僅僅沒有勇氣去承擔婚姻的前進，他們結婚只是因為性需要或者是因為一些其他的原因。他們很少因為情感上的承諾而煩惱，因此對於他們來說，欺騙沒什麼大不了的。他們喜歡競賽，追逐女孩子讓他們感到出奇的興奮，鉤到以後再去尋找其他人。成功的得到一段新的感情上的這種刺激也是男人欺騙女人的一個原因。對於這種男人我覺得很悲哀，因為除了對於兩性關係的一種扭曲想法外，在他們的思想里真的沒有別的了。

Physical Intimacy Negligible

微不足道的身體親密

Why do men cheat on their wives? Is it due to sexual dissatisfaction? Generally, this is believed to be the top most reason for infidelity. However, Men, hailed to be sexual predators, surprisingly don"t cheat majorly owing to sex. They"re more inclined to get involved with other women due to a disinterested partner. So here is another prominent reason why do men cheat and lie.

男人們為什麼要欺騙他們的妻子呢？是因為性愛的不滿么？一般來說，這對於無信仰的人是最重要的原因。然而，男人們歡呼要成為性捕食者，令人驚訝的是，主要是性方面原因的都不存在欺騙。由於有一個無私的夥伴，他們更傾向於佔有其他的女人。因此這是一個更突出的男人為什麼要撒謊的原因。

I Got Weak in the Heat of the Moment

在最激烈的時刻我變軟弱了

Phew.. I don"t know how smart this reason sounds but it is certainly a possible reason for why men cheat and lie. The temptation of getting allured by some sexy diva is something that can force the macho species kneel down on their knees and eventually surrender. So, you can say that accidentally, some men cheat (quite a dangerous accident though!). Hopefully, you"re getting something on why do men cheat on their girlfriends?

啊。。。我不知道這個原因聽起來會是多麼的精明但是它一定是男人欺騙和說謊的一個可能的原因。一些性感的女人能夠引誘男人，這種引誘可以讓男人們跪在她們面前，甚至是屈服。所以你可以說，意外地一些男人欺騙女人（雖然這是非常危險的意外）。希望如此，你就會知道為什麼男人們欺騙他們的女朋友了?

OK. These reasons are just some of the main causes of why do men lie to women or why do men cheat and lie. Believe me, some sort of communication gap and emotional instability is often the main reason behind cheating, be it from a male or from a female.

好吧。這些原因就是男人對女人撒謊或者男人欺騙撒謊的主要原因了。相信我，某種溝通的隔閡還有情感不穩定都是男人或者女人欺騙背後的主要原因。

Men who cheat intentionally must not be forgiven as your forgiveness can always be taken for granted. Even if you do forgive, things may not remain the same. I fail to understand that some men want both; they want to get married and they even want to live like a bachelor with all hook ups and freedom. Certainly, this is a wrong concept about relationships and such men are caught badly between love, lust and relationship. Although, there is no magic wand on how to keep your man from cheating, many men do respond to love, care and concern. So, why do men cheat and lie? Well, you have the answer now. So, ensure that you"re doing your best and if he is really not understanding your love and sacrifices, call it quits. You deserve much better in life than a cheating man!

不要原諒那些故意欺騙女人的男人們，因為你的原諒總是會被認為是理所當然的。即使你原諒了他，事情也變得不同了。我不明白那些想兩個都要的男人們；他們想要結婚，他們還想要像單身漢一樣自由的生活鉤住所有的女人。當然，這是兩性關係中錯誤的觀念，這種男人在愛情、性愛和人際之間都會被抓到的。雖然沒有魔棒可以讓你的男人不再欺騙你，但是一些男人還是會愛你、關心你、體貼你的。因此男人為什麼要說謊話？好吧，你現在有答案了。那麼，確定一下你現在儘力去做了，如果他真的不明白你對他的愛和犧牲，那麼結束這段關係吧。沒有一個欺騙你的男人你會過得更好。

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