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系列1： 為了解救各位在國外孤單的男生，這裡有不管對國產MM和洋妞都管用的技巧。人氣高的話我以後每天都添加新系列！大家不妨頂一下先 ！ How To Get Talking： Are you able to walk up to a girl that you『ve never met before and just start talking to her? Can you keep a conversation going and never run out of interesting things to say? Do you know how to ask a girl out on a date or get her number? A Few Useful Tips To Get The Conversation Going Tip #1 - Don?t talk about yourself until prompted to by her. Guys who talk about themselves too much often come across as being boring and conceited. Tip #2 - Introduce yourself properly to her early on. You make a good first impression and avoid the embarrassment of having to ask her later, or having to introduce her to someone else not knowing her name. Tip #3 - Use her name often. People respond well to the sound of their own name. It also shows that you are listening to her and that you value her company and opinion. Tip #4 - Ask open-ended questions. "What is your name?" or "What is the time?" are questions that require a specific and generally short answer. An open-ended question is one that does not require a specific answer, and prompts her to continue or to tell you more. "In what way..." or "Why do you say..." and "When you said... did you mean..." are examples. Open ended questions often use words like why or how, and not who, where or when. Tip #5 - Focus your attention on her and listen carefully, showing your interest. She will constantly reveal bits of important personal information. This will provide you with further topics for open-ended questions allowing you to keep the conversation going and show your interest. Good listeners are always regarded by others as great company, no matter how little they actually say! Learn More About Conversations and How To Ask Her Out... There is a lot more that you need to know if you want to ask her out with complete confidence. Exactly what do you say to ask her out? What if she says No? Does this mean I don『t stand a chance? Learn exactly how to start a conversation with a complete stranger Know what to say and how to say it How to ask her out and know that she will say yes Make sure that women enjoy your company 系列2：

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感謝大家對系列1的支持先，如果你還沒讀男孩必讀：泡MM技巧系列1的話，連接在此： http://www.powerapple.com/forum2/modules.php?op=modload&name=Forum&file=viewtopic&topic=407863&forum=33&34 請大家看完貼頂一下，這才能讓我有熱情繼續推出下面的系列！ Body Language How to use body language when dating Why Is Body Language Important? Less than 15% of the message we communicate is due to what we actually say. Over half of what we say is done through our body language. When flirting we use even more body language. So if you don『t know how to read body language, you『re missing out on what『s really going on. If you want to be in the game, learn to use body language. Girls naturally understand body language and use it all of the time. Unfortunately most guys don『t seem to understand body language very well. The guys who do understand body language get all girls they want, while the others still don『t get it. New! - Body Language For Seduction Report The new Body Language For Seduction report contains everything that you need to know about the body language of seduction. Make sure that you understand everything that she is telling you. Be available and sexy without saying a word. Basic Body Language - Pointing When a woman is interested in you she will begin to face or point in your direction. This may be done with her foot, leg or whole body. While standing, she will face her body in your direction and probably point her foot toward you. So if her foot is pointed to the guy standing next to you, you『re out of luck! The shoulder point is also important and is used together with the upper body point. If she looks at you over her shoulder that『s pointed in your direction, don『t hesitate, just make your move immediately. Leaning toward you is also an excellent sign. Body Language When Sitting When sitting the body, feet or knees can be used. Women often sit with one foot tucked up under the bum and then point with that knee. A knee point is an excellent sign as this exposes her thigh to you and she would only do this if very interested. Women also point using the leg cross. They sit with one leg crossed over the other, just like their mothers taught them, but then point their knees toward you saying "Don『t worry what Mother said, I『m keen on you." This is great body language for any guy. Body Language - Basic Female Signals of Interest The following are all signals that tell you she is interested: Thrusting her foot in and out of her shoe Exposing her wrists, palms and insides of arms in your direction Fondling an object or preening her hair or clothing. This must be in reaction to something you did or said (like a compliment or a special look) Smiling at you while you aren『t actually talking to her, especially with her teeth exposed While you are talking, she will laugh or giggle at things you say Tossing back her head or hair and then looking or smiling at you Standing with her legs slightly wider apart than normal When a woman is aroused by you, she could do all or any of the following: push out her chest; toss back her head and hair; flaring of nostrils; flushed cheeks; dilated pupils Learn Advanced Body Language And Seduction Many guys understand some of the most basic female signals listed above. There are many more explained in the ebook How To Get Lucky. Make sure that you don『t miss out. Be sure that you understand everything she is telling you. When it comes to sending out signals of their own, most guys are clueless. Learn to use body language and get more dates: Make yourself appear more sexy to women. Tell her how you feel without saying a word Know if she likes you before you ask her out Make sure that you understand the whole conversation 系列3： 今天是第3課，廢話不多說，開始學校吧。第1，2課在底下，沒看的可以看看，看過的在溫習一遍。另外記住看完一定頂一下！ The 6 Stages Of Seduction How To Seduce Any Woman We all want to date beautiful women, but ultimately we really want to seduce them and get them into bed. However, seduction is an art and consists of going through a number of steps. It is important that you progress from one stage of seduction to another. You can『t just walk up to a woman that you don『t know and ask her if she wants to go home with you. The objective of seduction is to take her being a stranger to being really hot for you. To do this, a woman must be taken through all six stages of seduction. The 6 Stages of Seduction seduction stage 1 - break the ice seduction stage 2 - establish rapport seduction stage 3 - gain her trust seduction stage 4 - signal your romantic intentions seduction stage 5 - make physical contact seduction stage 6 - get intimate Seduction Stage 1 - Break The Ice You first need to break the ice by introducing yourself and talking to her. The best thing to do is to simply relax, introduce yourself, smile and get chatting. Don『t try to be smart or too cool - just be yourself. Introduce yourself, smile and make a comment or ask a question. Seduction Stage 2 - Establish Rapport If you like a girl and she maybe also likes you, there is always a bit of nervous tension. Be confident and use body language and your conversational skills to get the relationship started. Your objective is to get her to relax and enjoy your company. Make sure that she wants to talk to you. Seduction Stage 3 - Gain Her Trust No girl wants to go out with a weirdo, so you have to gain her trust. Your objective is to find something in common so that she will know that you『re OK and she can trust you. Best is to know a mutual friend or share a common interest. It may sound difficult, but being in the same place, at the same time has to mean that there is something you have in common. As soon as your credentials have been established you are OK. Seduction Stage 4 - Tell Her How You Feel Women classify guys that they like as potential lovers or as potential friends. Let her know you are a potential lover. Pay her compliments about her looks (as a beautiful woman) and hold her gaze for a few seconds longer than a friend would. She must know that you think she is sexy. Seduction Stage 5 - Physical Contact This is when you finally get to touch her. Don『t lunge forward and stick your tongue down her throat! Hold her hand and pay her a compliment. Test her reaction and take it slowly, one step at a time. Lean forward, put your hand on her shoulder and softly wisper a compliment in her ear. Remember you are progressively moving into her personal space and testing her reaction to it. Seduction Stage 6 - Get Intimate You have to move confidently. You have tested her positive reactions to your contact, you have read her body language. But it『s still not time to stick your tongue down her throat. A soft kiss on the neck moving closer to her ear will turn her on much more. Move slowly, and confidently, telling her that she smells and feels lovely and sexy... Get it? Don『t rush her. Make her wait for it... Learn A Lot More About Seduction... Your seduction skills are the ultimate test of your abilities. Make sure that you go all the way - don『t mess up if you『ve got this far. Purchase the eBook, How To Get Lucky and learn how to seduce women with complete confidence. Seduce women with confidence and you will get lucky. Be sure you know what you are doing on dates Know what your next move will be and how to do it best Use a method that makes sure that you『re in control and she『s loving it Make sure that you go all the way... 系列4： 來上課了，廢話不多說了。第4課開始, 記住頂一下！： Improve Your Self Confidence The Importance of Self Confidence Women are naturally attracted to men who display self confidence. Why? Because confident men are successful, good providers and therefore will make the best mates to preserve our species. This is also why women are attracted to power and money. You may not have power and money, but you can develop confidence. Approach Her With Confidence When you approach a girl that you don『t know, you need to do it with confidence. You need to believe deep down that you are a worthwhile guy. Believe that she will want to talk to you and believe that she will want to go out on a date with you. Confidence is one of the key initial factors used by women to rate a guy during a first meeting. You need to have confidence when you ask her out or when you kiss her for the first time. If you don『t do it with confidence, you will appear to be a bit strange and she will not feel comfortable in your company. Self Confidence Through Practise When you first learnt to drive a car, did you drive straight onto the highway and dodge your way through the rush hour traffic into the city? No, you probably started on a lonely back road where there were no other cars at all and built up your skill and confidence over time. Well do the same with women. Walk up to a woman that you would never want to date and just chat to her. It could even be an old granny in the supermarket. It doesn『t matter. Do this every day. Every time you talk to a woman, make sure she is slightly more desirable. Just talk about anything. Slowly you will build your confidence and you will be talking to some real lookers. Now, drop back a few levels and ask a less attractive girl (but not a dog) out. Your first time could even be with a female friend. It『s all about building your confidence slowly. Don『t try running until you can walk. Learn A Lot More About Self Confidence... If you want to be successful with women, you need to be confident. Learn how to develop your confidence. Approach women with confidence Make women feel comfortable in your company Ask girls out without anxiety or stress Avoid frustration and regrets Women respect confident men 第5課開始！ Tips For Your First Date： Top Dating Tip - Never Ask A Negative Question Never ask a woman a question that could be answered "No", unless that is the answer you want. So don『t ask her "Could I have your number?" Ask her "What is the best number to contact you on?" Top Dating Tip - Always Use Her Name When talking to her, use her name constantly. Women love to hear their own names and it shows that you value and appreciate her. Also, if you meet anyone that you know, introduce her immediately and confidently. It is very important to show her that she is important to you. Top Dating Tip - Choose The Right Venue Don『t take her to a movie, a show or a club on a first date. You want to be able to talk to her and have loads of fun at the same time. Choose an activity that she enjoys and make it fun. Consider choosing something totally outrageous that she has never done before. Leave time afterwards to have something to eat so that you can talk about all the fun that you had. Don『t try and impress her by taking her out to an expensive restuarant on your first date. This causes tension when you want her to relax and simply enjoy your company. Top Dating Tip - First Mover Advantage Making the first move is always difficult, especially the first kiss. Get her in the right frame of mind right from the beginning. When you fetch her to go on your first date or meet her there, walk straight up to her, take both her hands in yours say "Hi, your『re looking beautiful (use her name)" and then kiss her on both cheeks and smile while looking her in the eyes. This move gives you several points of advantage. Firstly, it shows that you are confident and in control - they love that in a man. You are a man of action and will get what you want. Secondly, by holding her hands, looking into her eyes and kissing her, you have signalled your intentions. You are here as a potential lover, not as a friend to talk about her problems. Thirdly, you have removed a lot of the tension from stage 5 of the seduction process. She will probably happily hold hands, hug and respond positively to your real first kiss at a later stage. Remember to always stay confident and in control. Top Dating Tip - Its A Date, Not An Interview Remember it『s a date and you『re meant to be having fun, so don『t give her the third degree. "Where do you work?" and "What do you do?" are reserved for job interviews. If you are smart and ask good open ended questions, she will tell you what you need to know anyway. Think up some fun things to talk about that will reveal an interesting part of your life or personality. Most importantly, make sure she is having fun and that you are not putting her under pressure. Top Dating Tip - Don『t Discuss Ex-lovers Or Past Relationships Don『t discuss past relationships, even if you happen to know the person concerned. If she starts talking about her ex, tell her that it『s history and talk about something else. If she does it again, put her in her place politely, but firmly. Top Dating Tip - Don『t Try To Have Sex On Your First Date Trying to have sex on your first date is a fatal mistake, unless she attacks you. This may sound like the craziest tip that you have ever heard, but guys have an amazing ability to hear or interpret what women say into what we want to hear. You could well be decoding everything she says to be what you want to hear and not what she is actually saying. You do presumably want to see her again? So be patient and you『ll get what you want. Obviously, if she attacks you, don『t resist. Be Properly Prepared For Your First Date... If you have a date, make sure that it goes completely to plan. Buy the ebook, How To Get Lucky and learn how to date women with complete confidence. Learn what she wants and know how to please her You can『t plan everything, but you should always know what to do next Learn how to be confident and in control Make sure that she wants to see you again