拿什麼拯救你:被「裸婚」的80後

Naked Wedding, a recent hit TV series, tells the story of a young couple, Liu Yiyang (L) and Tong Jiaqian (R), who got married with no house, no car and no thick wad of banknotes. Stressed by sky-high housing prices, young Chinese couples find ways to simplify the wedding rituals – opting for a 「naked wedding」.

  《裸婚時代》是一部最近很火的電視劇,講述了年輕夫婦劉易陽和童佳倩無房、無車、無存款的裸婚故事。面對高居不下的房價,「裸婚」似乎成為年輕人唯一的出路。

  A「naked marriage」 is a Chinese term that refers to a marriage with the only cost being that of the nine yuan that needed to be paid to the Ministry Affairs Bureau as a legal marriage registration fee. This new form of marriage has caught public attention in a culture where for thousands of years getting married was regarded as a family issue more than an intimate arrangement between two individuals. Married couples often suggest that 「pure love」 isn』t enough to guarantee a happy ending in reality.

  「裸婚」就是結婚時只花9塊錢去民政局登記領證的結婚方式。在中國,幾千年來婚姻都被視為兩個家庭的事務而不只是小兩口自己的事兒。因此「裸婚」這種全新的結婚形式自然掀起了軒然大波。很多已婚的夫妻都表示:現實生活中只有「真愛」並不能保證擁有幸福。

  「Many couples blow marriage at the final stage when it involves buying a house,」 said Luo Zhiming, a marriage consultant at Beijing Hexintian Marriage Consulting Co. 「Money is usually the most critical thing to settle after a wedding,」 she added. For most young Chinese who earn an average wage and live an ordinary nine-to-five life, buying a house at present isn』t realistic for them, Luo pointed out.

  「很多小兩口都是結婚前的最後一步——買房子的時候吹的。」北京一家婚姻諮詢所的婚姻顧問羅志明說,「通常情況下,經濟問題會成為婚後最棘手的問題。」羅還表示:對大多數朝九晚五、工薪階層的年輕人來說,一結婚就買房子是很不現實的。

  An online survey from China』s popular matchmaker』s network, Jiayuan.com, showed 38 percent of women voted in 「support」 of a naked marriage, while 77 percent of male voters were happy with it. Sociologist Wang Qianma explained the ratio differences of the gender groups were a reflection of long-preserved marriage concepts among Chinese. 「Women care more about the form of a wedding, while men are more realistic.」

  世紀佳緣交友網(一家著名的婚介網站)的在線調查顯示:有38%的女性和77%的男性支持裸婚。社會學家Wang Qianma認為男女兩性支持裸婚的比例差異,反映出中國人由來已久的傳統婚姻觀念:女性更注重婚姻的形式,而男性則更現實

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