一封歐亞混血兒給全世界亞洲女性的公開信（轉載）

06-07

這與你的「偏好」無關。

我們並不笨，在過去40年中涉足社交圈的亞裔人士都非常了解亞洲女性如何談論亞洲男性，甚至無視他們的存在。

想像一下看，你的孩子現在看起來像亞裔。他們看起來有多麼的亞裔完全取決於抽籤式的運氣，一些像我這樣的人隨著年齡的增長而變得越來越亞裔化，甚至最終看起來完全是一個亞裔。我多次被拒絕就因為我是亞裔，我花了很多年的時間試圖隱藏自己的亞裔傳統，期望你有一半的認真如你對待你理想化的白人一樣。

所以現在我假設你們都參與到「亞洲項目」和「亞洲文化團體」中來，給你的孩子灌輸一些自尊。換句話說，你已經打破了你的仇恨和偏見，並且態度180度轉變。這是行不通的，只要一路走下去，教育他們成為白人（由於亞洲媚白），這將使他們更加的精神病。

如果你誠實地承認，任何一個看起來像亞裔的混血兒都不理解跨種族約會間的不平衡，以及亞洲男人在媒體上的表現，那麼你最好還是努力的去證明亞洲男人也是有吸引力的。等一下，你不能。

因為他們的父親全都是白人。

沒關係，你現在的狀態將會保留下來，十五年後，二十年後，有個詞將會出現。現在，突然之間，有了孩子之後，他們開始被稱為「Chinks」，被女孩們嘲笑 – 這與你年輕時的行為方式是驚人的一致在你和你的白人男友郎情妾意期間，現在你會怎樣做？假裝它從來沒有發生過？

不幸的是，有個巨大的副作用在你的「偏好」上，使你自己的孩子不會從你的偏好中受益，現在你將不得不向他們解釋為什麼你的許多姐妹在種族上也不喜歡亞洲男性……你迫切希望有一些白人女孩會喜歡你的孩子，但我們都知道，這取決於孩子的外表。

我們看起來不都是6英尺高的Julien Kang。

在混血兒出生20年後，這個泡沫終於爆發了。你最好開始寫博客和沒價值的養育文章關於提高混血孩子，也許他們不會想到，當你年輕的時候，你談論亞洲男人是多麼的狗屎。或者像其他媽媽一樣，開始在互聯網上炫耀你的混血兒孩子，就好像他們是時尚品。這將真正使他們精神健康？？

等等，讓我猜 – 你會告訴他們：「至少他們更好，因為他們是半白人。」因為這真的是一個很好的方式來提高你的孩子。

說真的，享受接下來的20年。但是如果我確信我父母做了什麼的話，絕不！

不相信我？我在我的博客上有我童年的照片，我會張貼另一個，甚至可能透露我是誰來證明這一點，這只是一個時間問題。你以為我在乎嗎？不，不，我不在乎的，因為你所做的事情是非常殘暴的，我打算用我的一生去揭露它。

An Open Letter to Asian Women, from A Hapa Son

It doesn』t matter about your 「preferences.」

We』re not stupid and any Asian looking person who has ventured out onto the social scene in the last 40 years knows pretty damn well how Asian women talk about Asian men and treat them like they don』t even exist.

Guess what, your kids are now going to look Asian. How Asian they look is entirely up to the luck of the draw; some of them like me get more Asian as they get older eventually crossing the line into full blown Asian looking. Guess what – I have been rejected several times for being Asian. I spent years trying to hide my Asian heritage just to be taking half as seriously as the white males you idealized for so long.

So now I assume you all get involved in 「Asian programs」 and 「Asian cultural groups」 to instill some self esteem in your kids; in other words you』ve hit the breaks on your hate and went fully backwards. Guess what: it doesn』t work. Just go all the way and teach them to be white, which will make them even more mentally ill.

If you HONESTLY think that any Asian looking Hapa isn』t keenly aware of the interracial dating imbalance as well as how Asian men are shown in the media, then you』d better work really hard to prove that Asian men are attractive too….. oh wait. You can』t.

Because their fathers are all universally white.

It doesn』t matter, 15 years later, 20 years later, this content will remain and the word will have gotten out. Now, suddenly, after you have kids, they start being called chinks and laughed at by girls – the same exact way you acted when you were young while you and your white boyfriend were coasting by in life; what are you going to do? Pretend it never happened?

Unfortunately having the luxury of acting on your 「preferences」 means that your own children won』t benefit from preferences and now you』re going to have to explain to them why many of your sisters in race also dislike Asian males… you』d better fully hope that there are some white girls who will take them, but we all know that depends on how the kid looks.

We』re not all 6』4″ Julien Kang lookalikes.

The bubble finally burst, some 20 years after the first Hapas were born. Better start writing blogs and crappy parenting articles about raising Hapa kids, maybe they won』t think about how much poisonous shit you talked about Asian guys when you were young. Or do what other mothers do, start plastering your Hapa kids all over the internet like they』re fashion accessories: that will really make them mentally healthy.

Oh wait, let me guess – you』re going to tell them, 「at least they』re better because they』re half white.」 Because that』s REALLY a great way to raise your kids.

Seriously, enjoy the next 20 years, if anything I』m sure my parents did. Not.

Don』t believe me? I have my childhood picture on my blog. I』ll post another one and maybe even reveal who I am to prove the point. It』s literally only a matter of time before someone pinpoints me as the source because of all the Asians in the US, my family are top feeders. You think I care about it? No, no I do not, because the things you are doing is beyond atrocious, and I plan to devote my life to exposing it.