模範婆媳相處一定會存在著黃金定律
模範婆媳相處一定會存在著黃金定律婆媳相處的黃金定律
日期:2014-08-06 編輯:黃偉 來源:老男人俗話說:「多年的媳婦熬成婆」,婆媳之間的關係,向來是中國人家庭關係中一個不可缺少的主題。婆媳關係是女人跟女人之間的戰爭,它存在於每個朝代,而最受煎熬的那塊熱是夾在她們中間的男人。
婆媳關係是一個永遠扯不清的話題,幾乎每次當媳婦的女同志們在一起都會談及婆婆,這裡面十有八九是數落婆婆的不是;同樣,幾乎每次當婆婆的老太太在一起聊天媳婦都焦點,表情也大都是義憤填膺的樣子。女人和女人之間的戰爭不管時代如何變遷,社會多麼進步,永遠都生生不息。而最受煎熬的就是夾在漢堡包中間那塊肉——男人。
我們單元里有一個出了名的好媳婦,她與公婆住在一起8年了,相處的非常融洽,這讓一談及與公婆同住就立刻變色的大多數媳婦們來說,這簡直不可思議。今年5月份婆婆動了個小手術,床上養病一個多月,老公經常出差,一日三餐都是媳婦端到跟前,鄰居都羨慕的要命,說找了一個比女兒還親的兒媳婦。甚至有個當婆婆的感嘆:唉……要是我躺床上,估計我那媳婦偷著樂呢。
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