關於突然疏遠的親人

我們總是想要成為自我,也曾為自我的聲音而堅持。

有時一定的距離只是因為自己內心的一些維護,也許是面子,也許是害羞,也許是高傲。

但是,我們也是很孤單的,因為即使是親人也不一定能懂得我們內心想要爭取做自己的行為。

那不是叛逆或背叛,而是成長需要的空間跟力量。只是錯過了叛逆的最好時間而已,

但我們也不知道應該如何面對成熟的叛逆。

此時,指責只能越推越遠,不需要說什麼 ,只需要擁抱,理解跟等待。

我在酷狗常聽的《張嘉倪 - 相遇的魔咒》,你也來聽聽吧!( 來自 @酷狗音樂 PC版 )

We always want to be myself, also for the voice of the ego and stick to it.

Sometimes distance just because some of the maintenance of our hearts, may be the face, may be shy, perhaps the proud.

However, we also is very lonely, because even relatives dont necessarily know our inner want to strive for their own behavior.

Thats not rebellious or betrayal, but growth needs space and power. Just missed the best time to rebel,

But we dont know how should face mature rebellious.

At this point, the accused can only push more and more far, dont need to say anything, just need a hug, to understand and wait.

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