獸性本能,你展現多少(下)
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Looking for a partner
Looking for the perfect mate is a lot harder for humans then for other animals as we have
more standards than the average animals. we look for more than just beingattractive, we like to compare personality to see if it matches our own. Although we all have a friend or we know someone, who cannot keep it in his pants or cannot keep her legsclosed. This is a type of animal behaviour.
For males, the aim of the game is to breed with as many women to spread his seed to make
sure his genes are passed onto a new generation, while in modern days itsfrowned upon to see a male sleeping with multiple girls or cheating on thepartner. Although you don』t have to look far for evidence to show that one maleand many females was common place. Most of religious text make it clear this ishow relationships should be. This is also seen in most animals on the planetwhere males will try and mate with as many females as possible. There is even amale mouse that will have sex so much in so little time that it will die of aheart attack.While the males will try and breed with as many females as possible, the female are more
of an aim of who they will mate with, you will hear of some wife』s or girlfriends that will leave their boyfriends or husbands because they think they found someone new. The new male is normally more successful, younger or better looking. Sometimes it works but as I stated above sometimes it will be a male just seducing a woman to spread his genes. This has been seen in nearly every female animal on the planet with lionesses looking for strongest lion tobirds that will desire a certain colour pattern on the male bird.While this seems very mean hearted and that the males and females that will cheat remember
if it wasn』t for this animalist behaviour we wouldn』t be on this planet at thismoment.Tribalism
When we look at animals they always form groups of animals, groups of cheetahs, pods of
dolphins and groups of ants, from great to small animals will stay in certaingroups. This can be seen in humans especially with race and culture.This is because we are raised within the same race that our eyes are
trained to read facial expressions. It also shows when someone of a certain race moves to a different country with a completely differentrace, what happened isthey will find people that are from the same race and join the community. Whilethis does make them feel safe it can also make them more isolated since theywill less likely move out of the comfort zone.We have seen tribalism in chimpanzees, and they have even started wars just because they
look a little bit different. But through knowledge we understand what makes ushave different coloured skin, although it is useful skill that we don』t want tolose, since it helps us understand when someone is sick and to avoid them sonot to become to be sick.中文翻譯:
上期我們講了與生俱來的動物本能:群體動力、炫耀的本能,今天再來扒扒還有哪些獸性本能吧!
求偶
相較於動物來說,人們能找到一個靈魂伴侶那真是太難了,因為我們有太多的選擇標準,我們不僅僅看中具有吸引力的外表,我們還會匹配對方的人品是否與自己的符合,事實上我們都清楚現實中,總會有許多這樣的人,他們對於愛情並不忠誠。這種尋花問柳的特性也是一種動物行為的表現方式。
對於男性來說,他們目的就是與儘可能多的女性發生關係以確保自己的基因能夠傳給下一代。當然男性這種行為在現代社會中是被認作不恥或是欺騙。但事實上一夫多妻在人類發展的歷程上是十分普遍的,大多數宗教典籍中男女相處模式就是一夫多妻制。地球上大多數的雄性動物都是在嘗試與儘可能多的雌性進行交配,甚至存在一種老鼠由於在短時間交配次數太多而死於心臟病。
男性的策略就是與儘可能多的女性發生關係,對於女性來說她們的目的就不僅僅是找一個配偶。你可能會聽說很多女性與男朋友或丈夫分手的原因是因為她們找到一個新的伴侶。通常這個新的伴侶更成功、更年輕或者有著更好看的外表。女性的選擇有時是正確的,但有時正如我上文提到的,僅僅是出於男性的性渴望。這種現象幾乎在所有的雌性動物身上有所體現,雌獅子會跟隨更強裝的雄獅,雌鳥對於特定顏色的雄鳥情有獨鍾。
雖然,男女雙方這種出軌行為讓人覺得世界似乎沒有真情所在,但是你不得不承認,如果不是這樣的話,人類也不會進化到今天這個程度。
部落文化
當我們觀察動物時,大多數都以部落形式聚集在一起,成群的獵豹、扎堆的海豚以及成百上千的螞蟻,不論體型大小,動物們都會組成數量不等的群體。人類同樣會因為某種原因而和特定的人組成團隊,最有可能的原因就是種族和文化的因素。
這是因為我們通常在同一種族的環境中成長起來,我們的眼睛從小就被訓練來讀懂不同的表情文化。當不得不移民至他國,有著不同種族習慣的地區,我們也通常會首先尋找和我們來自相同地方的人,加入所謂的「同鄉會」。這樣做會使我們有安全感,但同時也會加重我們的被排斥感,如果我們不願意嘗試走出我們的舒適區,去接觸新的人與事。
我們在黑猩猩中也能看到這種部落文化,甚至可能僅僅只是一點點的差別與分歧就會發動戰爭。但在人類社會中,隨著文明的積澱,我們不斷吸收與掌握知識,明白了是什麼讓我們有不同的膚色,但是對於異類,在有限的資源面前,在慾望面前,人類同樣會自相殘殺,所以,我們與猩猩有何不同?
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