泰國之行之見聞

The long vacation in Thailand

When the word Thailand cross my mind ,the first thing you would think about was a group of ladyboy dancing in the party .

I know Thailand from the movie 『lost in Thailand』, from this movie we can see Thailand is famous for it』s ladyboy,food ,message and temple. I am a Buddhist,and almost every body believe Buddhism in Thailand. I feel like at home when i am in Thailand,not because of the ladyboy ,not the food ,but the people here.

Just like the movie shows in the capital city Bangkok,there are a lot of traffic jams ,you can not imagine,my hotel is near the shopping mall, i am not sure whether it is the biggest one ,the distance is like 1000 meter,1000 meter,not kilometer,it takes me 39 min to get back ,my wife complain the traffic all the time but she does not want to walk anyway and the reason is because of me ,she notice that when walk at the street i will stare at these sexy lady or ladyboy,for me,I enjoy this ,but i will not stare at the same girl more than 5 seconds , it is rude,l know this .

When i work at a English training centre i always spend some time smoking ,chatting with my good friend ,who come back from England ,has spent 30 years in England, also we share the same hobby,we both like to stand outside the street and look at the beautiful girl passing by, and sometime we will make some comments about the girls ,too short ,too slim,too young. I do not like other Chinese men ,they like the girl to be very slim but not for me ,at least you need have a fatty booty.

My British friend use to have a family in England,he has a British wife and a daughter in England ,but they get divorced after may be like 20 years ,then my friend come back to China for a living ,he has change quite a lot jobs and ended up in the English teacher . I have asked him why stop change,he said , i am too old to get another job, no other company will accept a 50 -years -old man like me ,although my handsome face still looking young but you can not change the fact you already trued 50.He is very funny, I have so many funny story about him,but let』s back to my vocation in Thailand first.

My wife is a foodie ,you can tell from her body size ,but not all the foodie has the big size like my wife .Except eat she is a very good cook,every time i saw my wife eating something,i would say ,you have only one strength and that is eat. And she will fight me back with ,beside eating i also cooking. So Thailand is a perfect place for my wife , there are various delicious food,and it is very cheap ,one side is this country has large amount of resources ,the other side is our Chinese currency is very strong toward foreign currency,because of this , more and more people study and travel aboard. In Thailand,they eat rice as our Chinese and because Thailand is located in the tropical area ,the climate turned to be very warm so people there can grow the rice 3 times in one years .I think the special thing for the Thai food is the sauce ,they add different kind of sauce to different type of food . Just a little sauce stir with the rice is enough for me ,guess the sauce has some sort of magic power.

The massage culture in Thailand has a long history and became a global industry , you can enjoy the Thai massage in so may countries,but not as good in Thailand ,you can see the small or big massage shop everywhere in Thailand ,and the massagcan young or old,can be boy and girl ,can be sexy or average.if you go to the small massage shop,they are not that young and beautiful ,and the price is lower ,but if you go to the fancy one ,you will enjoy both the massage and seeing the beautiful girl. It is like the price is depend on the level of the beautiful lady. So ,there are so many story about the sexy girl and talented girl,so many talented girl work so hard but can not defeat the effect of the sexy body to their male boss. This kind of case happens sometimes .But most of the talented girl are get the respect they deserve. I see some sexy girl will use their sexy body on purpose to seduce a man who already have a nice family. Sometimes this kind of girl have nothing but the sexy body.I only see this in the movie or TV play , I do not know weather the writer has this kind of experience or they just want to attract us attention by this kind of topic.

I have went to the small one only ,because I am not along ,my wife is with me all the time ,how can I go somewhere full of sexy girls and spent large amount of money , that is not acceptable when my wife is there. By the way ,I love my wife very much .In the massage shop there are different kind of massage package,oil and different cream are being apply to the body ,and for the special massage I heard from the other people ,they use the beautiful girl as the oil,they will climb all over your body,and use their tongue to make you get there. In Thailand there are plenty girl do special massage as their career, once you arrive at Thailand and you open your we-chat ,take your the function of 『the person near you 『on,you can have a list ,if they are not ladyboy they will illustrate very clearly, cause most of them are ladyboy. So ,before you get one ,you need to see it twice.

It is very interesting that i saw one report done by one anonymous institution. But the authentic of this report ,we do not know ,the only thing we know is that it is gets a lot attention. This report shows that 90 percent of the female has cheating on her husband for different kind of reason. Yes ,90, but unfortunately we do not have a report for the men,but we can infer that figure can be very large , more than 90, I think.

In Thailand if you want get married you need to show how much money in your bank account to your father in law, after you get permission form the father ,you are allow to date the daughter,most of the case is like this ,but for the unique ones,it can be different. Why you need to show the money to your father in law?

First ,the female there are like to spend money, it is very strange that in the capital city, there are so many luxury shop,more than you can imagine,also cosmetic shop is everywhere, every body wear cosmetic in this city ,it is weird for most of the country men believe in Buddhism to pay so much attention on their face , i am not saying that wear make up or buy the luxury stuff are not good ,you can buy if you can ,nobody can stop you ,but on the premise you need to have that much money first ,from what i know ,they will use their credit card very often ,then ,after they can not return it back ,they will do the job as the special massager ,and the prostitute to earning money very fast.

From my perspective, I do not think the female in Thailand is being respect by others ,but they are very devote to their parents ,no matter how far they are with their parents ,how bad her own situation is ,she will send money to them monthly,it is like the thing you have to do in Thailand if you are a female,I am not sure whether this is the reason for them to be the prostitute, if it is ,they are deserve to be respected. Your parents are the one give you life ,you need to always remember that.

And the gap of the wealth is very big in Thailand ,it is a little bit like in Hongkong ,every thing their are being controlled by the 『four big family』,In Thailand ,every thing is running by the king, ,if you are from the royal family that means you are related to the king ,the colour of your licence plate is unique . But every one there is happy ,because they are believe in Buddhism,the principle for you to study Buddhism is learn to be satisfy. In Thailand,there are so many nature resource , that is the reason the food their is very cheap , and for the house you can pick up one land and build a small house near the ocean ,can you imagine how much this kind of house will cost you in Shenzhen,250000RMB for just 1 square meter. And in Thailand the climate is very good because it is in the tropical area , every day ,feel like in the spring . So it is a perfect place for living.

I love Thailand.

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