職場上的最大差距是你選擇工作而他選擇事業
當你面對一個新機會時,你考慮更多的是眼前的一份工作還是未來長久的事業?這個問題的答案非常重要。因為如果你考慮更多的是工作,那麼隨著時間的推移你很可能會發現你可以選擇的平台會越來越沒有吸引力,你的工作環境也只會越來越差。但如果是事業,那麼你會有更多可能去獲得更大的成功和更光明的未來。
為什麼會有那麼多人迷失和沮喪?
我做過很多關於事業成功的演講。每次做演講的時候,我都會給在場觀眾展示我的第一本書——《知己知彼》,一本針對中國專業人士的職業發展的書。在這本書的封面,有一張迷宮的圖片,我告訴觀眾:「不幸的是,這個迷宮代表了很多中國人的職業狀況。他們感到迷失和沮喪,覺得被困住了,不知道該走哪條路,也不知道該怎麼辦。儘管有天賦、努力、有慾望,但他們似乎仍無法達到他們所追求的那種成功。當我說這些的時候,在場的半數人通常都會開始點頭同意。
為什麼會這樣?我的意思是,我們正處在社會發展最迅速的時代! 這裡有獨特而巨大的市場需求,無數的成長機遇,以及那麼多的高素質人才。可是為什麼那麼多人在職場上並不快樂,工作了無鬥志?為什麼會有那麼多的人沒有發揮他們的潛能,去實現他們認為自己原本可以做到的事情?
以為工作就是目的
很重要的原因是他們只想找一份工作。而這不免過於短視,注重眼前利益,沒有考慮到如何去建立和實現事業上的成功。他們思考事情的方式也是如此的,並不知道眼下所選擇的工作環境將決定未來他們是否能夠獲得更好的機會、加入更好的環境。很多人甚至不知道一個事業成功的人應該是什麼樣子的,更別說如何實現它了。難怪他們會覺得自己陷入了死胡同,淪落到一個消磨生命、靈魂迷失的地步。
職位要求、頭銜、薪水、福利、辦公地點。如果你在追求工作機會時太過於關注這些方面,那麼你的目的就只是想找一份工作而已。我並不是說這些不重要,我的意思是它們並不是影響你事業發展的最重要因素,不能幫助你建立屬於你的成就,實現你的事業目標。
避免目光短淺
現實中,當你開始你的職業生涯時,專註於找到一份好工作是很正常的,因為你可能都不會去思考你的事業,這對你來說太遙遠了。但事實上,成功是建立在時間的基礎上的。你曾經所做的每一件事都會成為現在的一部分,它會影響未來的你是否有能力去獲取自己想要的東西。
在我25歲之前,我從來沒有想過我的事業和未來。我有一份好工作,這就夠了。它給了我豐厚的薪水,給了我優越的生活條件。除了工作之外,我還有時間做其他的事情。記得當時的我想,「我的生活真是太贊了!」
但慢慢地,隨著時間的流逝,工作變得不再那麼有趣,也不再那麼令人滿意。面對每天的工作我失去了熱情。工作變成了我謀生的手段。最終,我感到空虛和不快樂,看不到自己的未來。我開始變得更在意如何成為一名成功的人,其中很大一部分是在那些對我來說很重要的領域裡做的更好,並做些能讓我感覺很好的事情。當你年紀稍長些,你就會對自己的未來思考更多。
預先考慮你的未來
最近我和一位人力資源的高管聊天時,她說,「問題在於大多數人只關心如何擁有一份好工作,而不是他們的事業或未來。」和眾多面試者的談話中我也注意到這個問題。他們遲早會意識到,只關心工作並不會讓他們走的更遠,反之,事業的成功才能幫助他們在人生中獲得更多他們想要的,以及如何獲得更多快樂和滿足感。
職業發展、平台、匹配度、同事、可利用的資源、軟技能、工作成就,這些都是那些努力追求事業成功的人更加關注的點。它們更能幫助你發展自己,這樣你以後就能抓住更多、更好、更有吸引力的機會。
對那些太晚發現問題的人來說,這真的很難。他們無法預見未來。他們將沒有足夠的能力與信心去追求更有趣、更有意義的事物,或者抓住更好的機會,找到更好的工作。等到事情發展到這一步的話,你的事業就前景堪憂了,那就真的很糟糕了。
確實,找到一份好工作已經夠難的了。要做到這一點,需要考慮很多因素,面臨很多挑戰。而想要獲得一個成功的事業更難。但如果你不想對自己的未來感到沮喪、失落或絕望,不想走入事業的死胡同或繼續做一些你不喜歡做的事情,那麼我強烈建議你把更多的心思放在如何實現事業成功上,而不僅僅是找到一份好工作。這樣你就不必告訴別人:「我在事業上真的迷失了方向/沒有動力/不快樂,我到底該怎麼辦?」
想要學習如何評估自己的職業現狀,了解更多實用的職業見解和技巧,找到什麼樣的職業最適合你,那就加入Larry Wang 本周六(3月31日)舉辦的職場線下課吧!更多細節,請點擊下方!
Larry Wang王承倫:20,30,40,你找到最適合你的職業了嗎?你對自己事業的看法與你年輕時有什麼不同嗎?
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Or A Successful Career?
When considering a new opportunity, do you mainly think job or career? The answer to this question is quite important. Because if it』s job, you』re likely to find yourself in less appealing, less attractive situations over time. But if it』s career, then your ability to achieve greater success and a brighter future for yourself is much more likely.
Why are so many lost and frustrated?
I give a lot of talks related to career success. Whenever I do, I show everyone the cover of my first career development book for Chinese professionals, Know The Game, Play The Game, where there』s a picture of a maze. I then tell the audience 「Unfortunately, this maze represents the career situation of too many people here in China. They』re lost and frustrated. They feel trapped. They don』t know which way to go or what to do. Despite their talent, effort, and desire, they can』t seem to achieve the type of success they seek.」 As I say this, half the heads in the room will typically start to nod up and down.
Why is this happening? I mean, this is an exceptional market and period of growth and opportunity. In fact, it』s historic! In addition, there』s an ocean of smart, hardworking people here. So how can so many be unhappy and unmotivated with their career situation? Why are so many falling short of their potential and not achieving what they feel they』re capable of?
Too job-oriented
A big reason is they』re too job-oriented. They』re too short-sighted in how they view things. They focus too much on just today. They don』t think about how to build and achieve a successful career. Because they approach things in this way, they don』t make the connection between the job situations they choose today and how these determine their ability to capture better opportunities and join better situations in the future. Many don』t even know what a successful career looks like, let alone what it takes to achieve one. It』s no wonder why they find themselves in dead-end, life-draining, soul-sucking situations.
Job description. Title. Salary. Benefits. Office location. For instance, if you mainly pay attention to these things in the opportunities you pursue, then you』re too job-oriented. I』m not saying these aren』t important. Of course, they are. I』m saying that they』re not the things that most impact your career development, help you build your achievements, and allow you to attain your career objectives.
Don』t be short-sighted
Actually, starting your career, it』s natural to be focused on just getting a good job. Thinking about your career is likely the farthest thing from your mind. It』s too far away. But the reality is, success is built over time. Where everything you do and are a part of today affects your ability to attain what you want tomorrow.
Up until my mid-20s, I never thought that much about my career or future. I had a good job, and that was good enough. It paid me a good salary and gave me a good lifestyle. I had time to do many other things outside of work. I remember thinking, 「My life is pretty awesome!」
But slowly, surely, as time went by, the job became less interesting and less satisfying. I wasn』t engaged in what I did every day. My job became just the thing I did to make a living. Eventually, I reached a point where I felt empty and unhappy. I saw no bright future for myself. Where I was carefree before, I began to care more about being a successful person. A big part of that was being good at something that mattered to me. And doing something that I felt good about. That』s what happens as you get older and start thinking more about your future.
Anticipate your future
While talking to a very senior HR executive recently, she said, 「The problem is that most people only care about having a good job. They don』t really think about their career or future.」 I told her that I also noticed this from talking to many candidates. Until, that is, they realize that caring only about a job isn』t getting them very far. Or until they realize how much a successful career affects their ability to achieve many of the things they want in life. Including their ability to be happier and feel more fulfilled.
Career development. Platform. Fit. People you work with. Available resources. Transferrable skills. Building achievements.These are the things that people who try to pursue a successful career pay more attention to. They』re the things that most help you to develop yourself so you can capture bigger, better, more attractive opportunities later on.
For many people who realize this too late though, it』s tough. They don』t see the future coming. So they find themselves without the skill sets or confidence to pursue something more interesting and meaningful to them. Or the ability to capture better opportunities and get into a better job situation. It』s a terrible feeling discovering these things too late, and feeling that you don』t have very good career prospects ahead of you.
Yes, getting a good job is hard enough. There are many considerations and challenges just to do this right. Figuring out how to achieve a successful career is even much more difficult. But if you don』t want to end up feeling frustrated, disappointed, or desperate about your future, if you don』t want to run into career dead ends or find yourself doing something that you』re not interested in, then I strongly recommend that you put more thought into what it takes to achieve a successful career, rather than just get a good job. That way, you can avoid having to tell someone like me, 「I』m really lost/unmotivated/unhappy in my career, what do I do?」
Join Larry Wang』s upcoming workshop on the topic How To Figure Out What Kind of Career Will Best Fit You on 3/31. For details, just click the picture!
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