How to deal with your social contact

Take three when you see the messages above. I assume you have already done that. Now I wanna tell something that I think is really important.

Its an undoubted fact that almost everyone only cares about himself or we can say that everyone cares about himself muuuuch more than do others. I hope you take a moment to think about this. If you agree with that, then you should also understand that others wont care about you too much, or lets put it more accurate, other only care little about you, much less then you think it should be. Can you tell the reason? Because they care about himself so much just like you do.

Lets make it more clearly. Hopefully, you can understand the following circle.

If there is less than 40% of care you can give to others and there are 40 people around you, then each one can only get 1% care from you, only 1% and 60% for yourself.

What is the point? The point is, on one hand, you dont need to care too much about others thoughts on you, just do what really matters to you because they actually dont care, on the other hand, which is equally important, if you behave badly, then others will take away this 1% care.

The following pictures show the difference between youngsters and elders.

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