如果我沒有女朋友我將會錯過什麼？

02-13

摘自QUORA的問題

如果你有了女朋友你會錯過更多。

你好哇，李銀河。

你走了以後我每天都感到很悶，就像堂吉訶德一樣，每天想念托波索的達辛尼亞。請你千萬不要以為我拿達辛尼亞來打什麼比方。我要是開你的玩笑天理不容。我只是說我自己現在好像那一位害了相思病的愁容騎士。你記得塞萬提斯是怎麼描寫那位老先生在黑山裡吃苦吧？那你就知道我現在有多麼可笑了。
我現在已經養成了一種習慣，就是每三二天就要找你說幾句不想對別人說的話。當然還有更多的話沒有說出口來，但是只要我把它帶到了你面前，我走開時自己就滿意了，這些念頭就不再折磨我了。這是很難理解的是吧？把自己都把握不定的想法說給別人是折磨人，可是不說我又非常悶。
我想，我現在應該前進了。將來某一個時候我要來試試創造一點美好的東西。我要把所有的道路全試遍，直到你說「算了吧王先生，你不成」為止。我自覺很有希望，因為認識了你，我太應該有一點長進了。
我發覺我是一個壞小子，你爸爸說的一點也不錯。可是我現在不壞了，我有了良心。我的良心就是你。真的。

——《愛你就像愛生命》

所以，——

你失去成為愁容騎士的機會，失去把把握不定的想法告訴他人的機會，失去長進的機會，失去獲得良心的機會。

這裡是quora上票數最多的答案

Depends entirely on the girlfriend. Some things you might be missing out on:

Soft smells from her hair, her skin, her extra set of clothes that she leaves in your closet

Hugs, peekaboo-guess-who, kisses on the back of your neck when youre hard at work and forgot about the world around you for too long

Good cooking, or maybe good-morning coffee, or good takeout

Inspiration, shared jokes, mind-bending middle-of-the-night discussions

A buddy wholl hand you a tissue during the sad parts of your favorite movies... you know when Bruce Willis died in that one, you got all choked up, didnt ya

An enthusiastic fan of your career, your writing, your sense of humor, your (terrible) saxophone playing, your pickup games of basketball on Saturday mornings

A convert to your football team... at least on the weeks when her fav team isnt playing yours

New music you didnt know about

Someone to tell about that new song you just heard... even if its kinda cheesy shell probably give it a try

Stories of her life before you

Someone to brag to, who loves listening to you brag

Whispered sweet nothings

A helper when you need a hand

Someone to help—who shows her appreciation in wild and wonderful ways, like cake when its not your birthday

Tons of new experiences, new places to go, new foods to try, new friends to learn about, new authors and artists to consider, new lingerie to appreciate

Someone to grow into and grow comfortable with

Someone to tell secrets to... good ones and bad ones... without judgement

Tickling

Teasing

Phone calls when your boss isnt within earshot

Texts when ur boss isnt looking

A hand to hold, and arms to hold you, when times are tough and youre not sure you can support your own weight any more

A perspective very different from your own, but meltingly familiar

Butterflies in your stomach

The gentle jealousy of being in a secure relationship with someone whos a "catch" in your eyes—yet your eyes are the only ones that count to her

Massages

Caressing

French kisses

Spooning

Someone to be insanely, animalistically, proud of at all times

Someone to be insanely, animalistically, protective of at all times

Someone to be insane and animalistic with. At any time. ;)----------written by Kelly Erickson

錯過戀愛時的心情

被劈腿的機會

你需要什麼

你究竟是需要一個女人

在夜裡代替你的右手

還是需要這個女人

在清晨為你煮一碗粥

你是需要她對你的崇拜

來滿足你那幼稚的虛榮

還是需要他的包容

忍受你的倔強和壞脾氣你需要什麼來自花粥.

你將會錯過,你人生中最為璀璨的一塊寶石,我以前也認為沒女朋友無所謂,但是阿,當遇到那個人,這世界才突然發出了原本他不存在的光芒.

SO,隨便你.