問人蔘事先責己

文康枝英

一件事情，如果達不到至善至美，偏離了自身預期的效果，不如先在自己身上找原因，什麼外在的因素都不是直接可以參與到任何事物當中的導向點，唯有自身的選擇和所行可以直接導致任何或現有結果的產生。

當我們以全身心的精力去投放到一件事物當中，結論卻無法達到我們預期想要達到的效果時，也許一些外在的客觀因素只會定義為輔助導向的作用層面上，而促成我們行為或立場方位的主觀因素，還需從我們自身的問題中查找原因。

多數情況下，當一些事物的立場與我們相左右背離我們本意時，我們擅於習慣性的為自己建立某種自我保護意圖，出現一種他為責任大於自我責任的錯誤意識和觀念，甚至發出一些急於維護自我的聲音訊號：「我錯了，都是因為你，或者我沒錯，都是別人的錯！」把自我的責任機制，扭轉為他人的責任機制，而忽略了尋找我們自身的原因，才是更該及時發現和及時修正或提升的主要原因。

在事物的形成中，任何一種可能或可以促成事物結論的外在因素，都是某種間接的銜接因素，或者說，它可歸結為間接參與事物的不定項導向點，而我們自身的決定和走向，才是可能或可以產生事物結論的主向點。

所以，在一些事物中產生的不良結論或無法達到我們所預期的某種有效結果時，我們最不該產生急於抱怨或急於推卸的錯誤思想和行為意識，而需要在我們的主觀意識和主觀方向上尋找我們自身的漏洞和疏忽，是在哪一個主要的關節點上直接影響或導致了一些事物結論的產生，沒能達到至善至美的良好效果。

我們唯有在錯誤的觀念中，及時發現我們自身的不足或者偏執，及時的消除錯誤的思想分歧，及時修正和建立正確的行為意識觀念。如此，我們才會在參與任何事物的行為能力上得到有效的提升。

因此，一件事物所導致的一種失敗和結果，首先，我們要擅於發現和擔當那一部分我們自身因素的失敗，其他因素的主要因素和外在因素並不是完全可以導向我們定向和結論的主導。

Ask ginseng to blame himself in advance

If a thing fails to achieve the most beautiful and deviates from its intended effect, it is better to find a cause in itself first, and no external factor is directly involved in the guiding point of anything. Only ones own choices and actions can directly lead to any or existing results.

When we put all our energy into a thing and the conclusion does not achieve the desired effect, perhaps some external objective factors will be defined as the level of auxiliary guidance. Subjective factors that contribute to the orientation of our actions or positions need to be found in our own problems.

Most of the time, when things stand on the left and right of us, we are good at building some kind of self-protective intent for ourselves. There is a misconception that he is more responsible than himself, and he even sends out some sound signals eager to defend himself: "I am wrong, because you, or I am right, it is someone elses fault!" "the main reason for timely discovery and timely correction or promotion is to turn the self-responsibility mechanism into the responsibility mechanism of others, while neglecting to find our own reasons.

In the formation of things, any external factor that can or may contribute to the conclusion of things is an indirect cohesion factor, or it can be summed up as the indefinite guiding point of indirect participation in things. And our own decisions and directions are the main points that can or may lead to conclusions.

So, when some things produce bad conclusions or fail to achieve some of the effective results we expect, we should not have the wrong ideas and behavior consciousness that are anxious to complain or to shirk. But we need to look for our own loopholes and omissions in our subjective consciousness and subjective direction. It is at which key point that directly influences or leads to the production of some conclusions. Failed to achieve the best of the best effect.

We can only find our own inadequacies or bigotry in time in the wrong ideas, eliminate the wrong ideological differences in time, correct and establish the correct behavior consciousness in time. Only when we are able to participate in anything can we effectively improve our ability to act.

Therefore, the failure and result of a thing, first of all, we must be good at discovering and bearing the failure of that part of our own factors. The main and external factors of other factors are not completely leading to our orientation and conclusion.

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