深刻了解務須

文/康枝英

當你了解真正想要什麼時,抉擇會變得很簡單,事物才會顯得通透;當你無法辨別對什麼必不可少時,思路會變得難分邊界,事物就會顯得渾濁;當你什麼都含糊不清,什麼都不想舍掉時,事物的存在便會患得患失。

當我們面對多邊事物的端源,難分定奪,無法做出明確的判斷和抉擇時,首先,要找准一個準確的意向和方位,弄清楚所處的立場是什麼?想明白我們真正的需求是什麼?如此,你的思想線條便會拎的很清,無論面對多麼複雜的抉擇,我們自己的意向和決定都會簡潔和明朗。你對待事物的理解和看法以及思考層面的辨析思維也會更加通透鮮明。

在任何一次重要的抉擇面前,當我們無法明確我們的目標和方向,無法確定我們真正需要什麼?什麼對於我們的志向及發展走向是必不可少的?自然也就無法做出一個相對正確的決定。因為,在這種情況下,我們的思維多半存在著多元化的變相因素,整個思想線條也會多邊擴充,難以劃分出明確的邊界,對於事物的滲透也只是在輪廓的邊緣處徘徊不定,概論也會相對渾濁不清,不能方位性的給出明確的辯定。

當對於任何事物能給予我們相應的能量和吸引時,我們對於它的需求和務須,是否是我們真正要擇求的務須,還是那麼含糊不清?是什麼都想了解,又不能真正了解?什麼都想參與,又無法真正參與?還是你什麼都想要,什麼都無法舍掉時?那麼,事物對於你的作用和意義,以及你所獲得的各種事物所回放的信號,自然就會患得患失,無法真正檢測到任何事物的內核之處。

唯有我們真正了解和探察到我們自身真正的務須是什麼?那麼對待事物的選擇範圍就會有鮮明的方向分化,唯有真正參與到務須事物的構架中,才有可能探尋到我們真正的內實需求是什麼?一旦我們對探察的事物有了探尋的方向和定位,我們參與事物的考量路線必會清晰明了,這時獲得的結論,便會是我們真實的務須。對於依舊拎不清的,思維在哪裡卡頓,就在哪裡思考解決,無論任何複雜的選擇方向,決定也會是簡單通徹。

To have a good understanding of the need

When you know what you really want, the choice becomes simple and things become clear; When you cannot tell what is necessary, the mind becomes indistinguishable, and things become muddy; When you are vague and dont want to give up anything, the existence of things will cost you.

When we are faced with the source of multilateral affairs, it is difficult to determine whether we can make a clear judgment or decision. First of all, we must find out an accurate intention and position, and what is the position we are in? Trying to figure out what our real needs are? In this way, your thoughts will be very clear, no matter how complex the choice faced. Our own intentions and decisions will be concise and clear. Your understanding and perception of things, as well as your discriminative thinking at the level of thinking, will be more clear-cut.

In the face of any important choice, when we can not clear our goals and direction, can not determine what we really need? What is essential to our aspirations and development? Naturally, it is impossible to make a relatively correct decision because, in this case, most of our thinking has a multiplicity of disguised elements, and the entire line of thought expands multilaterally. It is difficult to distinguish the definite boundary, the permeation of things is only wandering at the edge of the contour, the general theory will be relatively muddy, can not give a clear definition of orientation.

When anything gives us the corresponding energy and attraction, is our need and need for it, the one we really want, or is it so vague? What do you want to know, and you dont really know? You want to be involved in everything, and you cant really get involved? Or when you want everything and you cant give it up? Then things play back on your role and meaning, as well as the signals you receive, so that you cant really detect the essence of anything.

Only do we really understand and discover what we really have to do with ourselves? Then the choice of the scope of things will have a clear differentiation, only by really participating in the framework of the necessary things, it is possible to explore our real real needs what is? Once we have the direction and orientation of what we are exploring, the way we participate in the consideration of things will be clear and clear. This is the conclusion we have come to, and it will be our real necessity. We still do not have a clear understanding of what is going on. Where the mind is, its where you think about it. Whatever the complex choice direction, the decision will be simple and clear.

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