人的內心深處都有幾分戀母情結

每個人的內心深處都深藏著一位近似於母親，又不是母親，卻超越了母親本身的偉大形象。這個偉大形象的存在，可能是你潛意識裡所勾勒出的一位全能全知、無所不通的哲理女神的幻影，也可能會是你現實中所遇所見所追捧和崇尚，甚至在骨縫裡讓人滲入敬畏心和折服感的偉大的心智開發者、研究者、引領者神跡的魅力所向，以母性的慈悲和寬廣接納所觸事物的善存，從而牽引和規範著我們本身的思維素養和行為意識。

我們會不由自主或下意識地把此等神跡類別的人物，塑為自身的榜樣或者偶像來膜拜，因為此種神定的魔力，足以超越了常規範圍內的限域，或者更合理的說是一種與生俱來的存在。

在我們很小的時候，每個人的大腦思維間隙中，便會深深烙上一個媽媽的印記，會認為母親是這個世界上最美麗的人，會認為成人後的自己也應該會成為那時候媽媽的樣子。

但事實上，在我們成長的過程中，經歷了年幼期的天真，叛逆期的狂野，青春期的懵懂，成熟期的沉穩，在這些過渡階段里，所及之處的思想層次轉化和行為演變中，在被某種事物和環境所打磨和催化的進程中，曾經的我們往往會轉化為另外一個自己，形成本身獨立的人格，有著對事物的辨析思維及判斷能力，已潛移默化形成了另一種處事方式或者說另一種獨有的別緻風格，這時候，我們再想去發現那個真我，是多麼的遙不可及。於是，那種小時候想成為媽媽樣子的印記，又是多麼的難能可貴。

換一種角度去思考，每個人思想層面的過度和進化，多是以某種神定的人物形象，為原始版本來塑造和設定的自我延伸趨向，更加標準化的去探尋和完善自身的修為。這種思想和精神層面的過度及影響，往往大於某種行為示範的側形，反而會儲積更多正極的生命能源，觸發更為積極有效的光源轉化，使思想進化和行為所向融為合成統一化。

The human heart has a bit of Oedipus complex

Everyones heart hides a similar to the mother, and not the mother, but beyond the great mother image itself. This great image exists, may be a omniscience in your subconscious mind the outline, the goddess of all philosophical visions, may see what is encountered sought after and advocate your reality, even in the great mind of developers, suture people into a sense of awe and admiration of the researchers, led by the charm to sign, with the maternal compassion and broad acceptance of touch things good, thus we traction and regulate itself quality of thinking and behavior consciousness.

We will cant help or subconsciously such signs category characters, plastic for their own role models or idol worship, because the God of magic, enough to go beyond the limit of conventional domain range, or more reasonable is a birthright.

When we were young, everyone in the mind space, will be deeply branded with a mother mark, think she was the most beautiful people in the world, will think adults should also be at that time my mother look.

But in fact, in our growth process, experienced young naive, rebellious adolescent wild, ignorant, mature and calm, in the transition period, the evolution of the idea of hierarchy transformation and behavior, in some things and the environment in the process of grinding and catalysis. We have often converted to another, forming itself independent personality, with analysis of the thinking and judgment of things, has been formed in another way or another unique chic style, at this time, we want to find the real me, is how far away. "The kind of small, when you want to become a mother like mark, also is very valuable.

Change an angle to think, everyone thought level of excess and evolution, which are a god figure, as the original version to create and set the self extension trend, more standard to explore and improve their own cultivation. This kind of thought and spiritual excesses and influence, often greater than a certain behavior side demonstration, but will be more positive energy accumulation of life, triggering more positive and effective conversion source, make the ideological evolution and behavior to melt for the synthesis of unification.

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