簡單這回事兒

02-12

簡單，這個詞很廣義，也很狹義。

我想可分為幾種層面來理解和定義吧。

所謂簡單，就是對於某種事物，在思想深層內第一時間裡所產生的第一感應或條件反射；所謂純真，多數是指人在還沒有踏入社會時，沒有被各種事物或者任何信息產物導向時，自身潛在的一種本性的純度，可理解為是一種形式的簡單；所謂複雜，就是被修飾藝術化後，所呈現的另一種帶有美感或深奧體現的簡單。

我們或許會在偶然的情況下，接觸到某種新鮮的事物，會讓我們當下來不及去反應，會讓我們措手不及，原因可能是，你一直都在你原本的航線規劃中，探索和追尋你的目標或已定計劃的內容，沒有做過其他領域的設想。那麼這種情況完全是一種意外的出現。這個時候，我們應該如何去平衡這兩者之間的關聯會比較妥當？

一、首先，起初你不以為這種事物是真實的，且讓你產生極大的好奇心，你很想去確認這種信號是否確實是真實的存在？它是一種本能的第一感知和條件反射，是一種完全沒有設定，沒有任何的準備或預兆的突發事物。或許我們都有過類似的體驗。這種情況，原本也該歸為一種很正常的表現，是沒有任何計劃和企圖的。

二、簡單，或者可理解為天真或無知的一種表現吧，人在沒有被各種社會事，各種人情事所困擾時，內心是保留了幾分純真的。而在步入社會後，遇到一些突發情況時，還是想儘可能盡全力地守住這份簡單，因為這一念至始至終是充滿了善意的。

三、我所理解的複雜，應該分為兩種解釋：

1、一種情況是與生俱來的，是隨母體本身存在的原始基因而生成的，是受父母以及兄弟姐妹或家族成員的影響自身攜帶的基因成分。

2、一種是由簡單進化而來的。有時候我們在與人交道或交流時，擔心會因方法不正確，或言語觸碰，以及突發的意外事件造成的煩惱，也由此產生任何的不愉快而傷了和氣。這時，我們通常會選擇一些方式方法，小心去避免或化解所面對的任何情況，一般就會採用比較中和的態度，儘力去糅合，儘可能排除一些矛盾的生成，往往會用語言的角度轉換或處事的態度去平衡，去把一些太過直接的語言或行為加以修飾，避免造成不必要的碰撞。如此，會是另外一種感受和體會。

而我們最常見的，後一種情況比較多一點。

This simple thing

Simple, this word is also very broad, narrow sense.

I think can be divided into several levels to understand and define it.

It is simple, is for some things, the first induction or reflex produced in the first time in deep thought; the so-called pure, most have not yet entered the means in the society, not all things or any information oriented product, the purity of a nature of their own potential, can be understood as a in the form of simple and complex, is to be modified; art, is another kind of beauty with simple or profound embodiment.

We may be in occasional cases exposed to some new things, will let us down when not to respond, let us be taken by surprise, the reason may be, you are always on your original route planning, exploration and pursuit of your goals or plan content, did not imagine in other areas. So this situation is a completely unexpected. This time, we should be how to balance the relationship between the two would be more appropriate?

First of all, at first, dont you think this thing is true, and let you have a great curiosity, you really want to confirm this signal is actually true? It is a kind of instinctive perception and the first reflex, is a completely unexpected things is not set, without any preparation or. Maybe we have had a similar experience. This kind of situation, had also the return to a normal performance, there is no plan and attempt.

Two, simple, or can be understood as a manifestation of innocence or ignorance, people are all social things in the absence of a variety of circumstances, people obsessed, a pure heart is preserved. And enter the society, encounter some unexpected situations, or want to do everything possible to try to hold this simple, because this thought from the beginning to the end is full of good intentions.

Three, I understand the complex, should be divided into two kinds of explanation:

1, one is born, the mother is the original gene itself and the body, is a genetic component carried by the influence of parents and siblings or family members.

2, one is a simple evolved. Sometimes we are with other people or to communicate, to worry about because of incorrect method, or verbal touch, and sudden accidents caused trouble, resulting in any unpleasant and hurt. At this time, we usually choose some methods. Be careful to avoid or resolve any situation facing, generally using neutral attitude, try to blend, as far as possible to eliminate the generation of some contradictions, often use the perspective of language conversion or attitude to balance, get some too direct language or behavior to be modified, to avoid unnecessary collision so, is another kind of feeling.

And we are the most common, after a little more.