以你的名字呼喚我

那個吻和你的襯衫，是我從你這裡拿到的一切

纖細敏感的少年，七八十年代懷舊的場景，在夏季漫長而無聊的時光，與一個在自己家只待六周的年輕學者相愛，以oliver的離開結束

慵懶的夏日，充滿成熟果實的香味，朦朧的光線，迷醉年輕荷爾蒙的氣息，無憂的歲月，然後遇到了你，就一生也無法忘記。

曾經一直未曾明白，既然愛無關性別，那愛關於什麼。愛是相互吸引，纏繞，兩個本來無關的生命，遇到之後，才發覺了愛情的嗎？遇到之後，才發覺如果失去對方，生命就會變得缺損的嗎？ 是合為一體，互相通靈，還是兩人同時單方向的喜歡並互相傳達

只是，愛情是一個，很複雜的事情

就像oliver 離開的太溫柔，而elio 倔強的執著

還好他的父親會用這樣推心置腹的獨白來告訴他人生的短暫，告訴他那些超越性向、愛情和友誼的東西值得我們用生命去體驗，用青春去銘刻。哪怕只有一次，哪怕是生離死別，我們也永遠不會覺得可惜

「Look, he interrupted. You had a beautiful friendship. Maybe more than a friendship. And I envy you. In my place, most parents would hope the whole thing goes away, or pray that their sons land on their feet soon enough. But I am not such a parent. In your place, if there is pain, nurse it, and if there is a flame, dont snuff it out, dont be brutal with it. Withdrawal can be a terrible thing when it keeps us awake at night, and watching others forget us sooner than wed want to be forgotten is no better. We rip out so much of ourselves to be cured of things faster than we should that we go bankrupt by the age of thirty and have less to offer each time we start with someone new. But to feel nothing so as not to feel anything—what a w「I may have come close, but I never had what you had. Something always held me back or stood in the way. How you live your life is your business. But remember, our hearts and our bodies are given to us only once. Most of us cant help but live as though weve got two lives to live, one is the mockup, the other the finished version, and then there are all those versions in between. But theres only one, and before you know it, your heart is worn out, and, as for your body, there comes a point when no one looks at it, much less wants to come near it. Right now theres sorrow. I dont envy the pain. But I envy you the pain

在你最想不到的時候，命運會以最狡猾的方式找到我們的軟肋。但你要記住，我在這兒。現在你也許希望自己不去感覺，也許你希望從不感覺這些，也許你是不想跟我說這些事情，但是...去感覺這些明顯的感覺吧！你有過一段美妙的友誼，也許比友誼更多，這讓我羨慕。站在我的角度，多數父母會希望整件事淡去，祈禱他們的孩子重新振作 但...我不是那樣的家長。為了讓我們更快癒合，我們從自己身上剝去了太多東西，以致於不到30歲就一無所有。每開始一段新的感情，能給予對方的就越少。但為了讓自己沒有感覺而不去感覺，這是多麼的浪費! 」

「我說了不該說的話嗎？ 那我再說一件事情，讓我們掃除芥蒂。我可能曾經很接近，但我從沒有過你們所擁有的。總有什麼，牽絆著我，擋在我的前面。怎麼過這一生是你的事情。只要...記住，我們的心和身體只被給予這一次，而在你知道前，你的心會疲憊，而你的身體...總有一天沒人會願意多看一眼，更不要說貼近它。現在...你可能感到難過，痛苦。別讓它消失，更別說那些有過的快樂。」

我覺得最感動的倒是整個家庭對愛的包容 一場夢境般的故事

然後這個故事就結束了。