名媛紳士禮儀第四期：7種展現紳士風度的行為，您知道幾種？

02-04

女士們先生們，婦女節時我們曾發布文章：4種展現紳士風度的行為。今天我們將繼續探討另外7種表達對女士們尊重的紳士行為。真正的紳士必定有著良好的教養！

Dear ladies and gentlemen, for women』s day we have published the 4 chivalrous gestures gentlemen may accomplish towards women, to remind them how important they are. Today we finish the sequence with 7 new gestures. Manners are still making the man!

1. 走在靠近街道的一側

Walk on the side closes to the traffic

建議：男士和女士並排而行時，建議男士走在女士的外側，也就是靠近街道的一側。一方面為了女士們的安全考慮，另一方面也可以為女士們擋住來自街道的塵土或來往車輛濺起的水花。

Do: When walking, the gentleman makes sure to walk on the outside, closer to the road than her. This shows that her safety is important. It also protects the lady from the dust and the cars splashing the puddles.

避免：除特殊原因外，走路時不要一直將女士丟在身後。這是對女士不尊重的表現，同時也會增加雙方距離感。另外需要注意，某些路段可能並不適合穿著高跟鞋走路的女士。

Don』t: When walking, don』t walk ahead of her unless there』s truly a good reason. It』s disrespectful and feels emotionally closed off. Also, be aware that if she is wearing heels, there are just some places which she will not be able to walk.

2. 伸出手臂讓女士挽住

Give her your arm while walking

建議：非常傳統而且經典的動作。伸出手臂，讓女士們可以挽住。這個行為可能有些過時，但卻很好地展現對女士的關愛和尊重。較為正式的晚宴，正式慶典或僅僅是散步時，男士們都可以伸出手臂讓女士挽住。

Do: giving the arm to a lady while walking is a very traditional gesture showing affection and courtesy to a woman, even if slightly old-fashioned today. Although, it is still applicable when arriving to formal events such as galas, ceremonies, or just for a having a walk.

避免：伸出自己的左手臂而非右手臂。因為女士們可能更習慣使用自己的右手挽住別人。當然這完全要根據女士們的習慣而決定。（如果女士慣用左手，那麼男士應伸出右手臂）

Don』t: Give her your left arm, and not the right. Why? Because it is more convenient for her to use her right arm. Of course, if she』s left handed you may change.

3. 在餐盤較重時為她提供幫助

Serve her at the table if the platters or bottles are too heavy

建議：晚宴時，有些食物放在大而重盤子里，女士們端起盤子取用非常不方便。這時男士可以在旁幫女士端著盤子，或直接詢問她們的需求為她們布菜。另外，如果女士有需要喝酒，男士需為女士倒酒。

Do: At a dinner some dishes may be served in large platters which may become very heavy then. It would be appreciated from a gentleman to hold these platters for her while she helps herself, or to serve her. Likewise, for the wine, the gentleman shall serve the lady.

避免：注意不要把女士當成小孩子，也不要把自己當成服務員。不必每道菜或飲料都要幫助女士，幫助僅限於那些比較重的盤子等。

Don』t: She is not a baby and you are not a waiter, you shall not do it for every dish or beverage. Only the heavy ones.

4. 為女士披上外套

He offers her his jacket

建議：這是最暖心的紳士行為之一。當女士們的肢體動作或直接言語表示出很冷，那麼男士們可以將外套脫下，披在女士身上，表明對女士們的關心。

Do: One of the cutest acts of chivalry possible. When she starts to shiver, begins rubbing her arms, or mentions how chilly it is outside, the gentleman just take it off and help her into it. It reveals to her that her comfort is important to for him.

避免：如果男士們也感覺很冷，並不代表男士們必須要將外套脫下讓給女士，獨自忍受寒冷。男士們可以將女士們拉近，用自己的外套同時護住女士，讓她覺得暖和些。

Don』t: Now, if you』re also cold, that doesn』t mean that you should freeze just to give your partner your jacket. Instead, just draw her in and keep her warm!

5. 為女士準備早餐

Bring breakfast for her wake-up

建議：準備好早餐，整齊擺放在托盤上，旁邊再配上鮮花，然後將早餐送到床邊。這樣一來，女士們甚至不用起床可以享受美好一餐。此時男士當然可以加入，與女士共享溫馨浪漫的一刻，開始美好的一天！

Do: The gentleman brings the complete breakfast in bed, on a well-arrangement tray with a flower. The lady doesn』t even have to leave the bed, and you can spend a warm moment together. Such a great start for the day!

避免：不必每天或每周末都要這樣做。這種浪漫可以只留給特殊的日子。

Don』t: Of course it cannot be expected every day or even every week-end. To keep the romance, it should remain exceptional.

6. 陪她等車和送她回家

Wait with her and walk her home

建議：陪送女伴，女朋友等任何女士是非常紳士的行為，避免她單獨成行。或者至少，男士應該一直陪著女士，直到她叫到計程車或司機接到她。

Do: Walking a date, girlfriend, or any woman is a fantastic chivalrous gesture from a gentleman, it would avoid her an uncomfortable moment alone. At least, he should wait with her for her taxi or driver to pick her up, keeping her in a nice company until the end.

避免：送女士回家應當是出於體貼和尊重，而不應該別有用心。這是一項非常體貼的紳士行為。

Don』t: Walk her home out of respect and thoughtfulness, without expecting any particular rewards or invitation. It is an altruistic, chivalrous gesture.

7. 為她開門

Hold the door for her

建議：這個行為不僅對女士適用，對其他人也可以：當您需要進入或離開一間屋子，推開門後最好再繼續為後面的人撐著門，對方一定會向您表示感謝。

Do: This is applicable with ladies, but also with anybody: you are entering/leaving a room by pushing a door, simply hold it for avoiding it to fall on the person behind you, which shall thank you for this.

避免：您並不是門童。所以只要幫後面的人撐一下，等到對方自己扶著門就可以鬆開手，不必一直等到對方離開後再關上門。

Don』t: you are not the door person, simply hold it until he/she can hold too, no need to close it behind him/her.

以上是日常生活中常見的展現紳士風度的行為。歡迎各位給我們留言進行補充！

Here is the end of our articles regarding chivalrous gestures in your daily life. As always, you are more than welcome to leave us comments!

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