如何勸導浪費時間的人珍惜時間?

01-15

人總是有過這樣的體會，失去了才知道珍惜，曾經浪費時間的人明白了時間的重要性之後卻無力改變周圍人浪費時間，頓時覺得世界是個死循環

自己一秒一秒的悄然老去。

就像你看完我這條回答就又少活了幾秒鐘。

正當你在對著手機瀏覽毫無用處的網頁發獃的時候時間已經流逝。

好好想想，自己活到現在浪費了多少時間。

像生活中微不足道的一些小事，比如你在上廁所的時候刷手機又多刷了幾分鐘。

你假期有想做的事情又懶得動正在糾結要不要做的時候。

有的事情你想做時間卻不允許的時候，請仔細想想自己以前浪費了多少時間。

知道蝴蝶效應嗎？即使多珍惜一秒的時間，你的未來也會發生變化。

不要說有些事情都是天意，要看你自己是不是時間。

時間是神奇的東西，每秒鐘你的未來都可能變化。

怎麼辦？？
我能怎麼辦，我也很絕望啊。
那就去做，少廢話。
但凡你真的意識到了並想要改變，就從最小的事開始做起，逐漸養成良好的習慣。養成習慣後，很多問題自然而然就解決了。不下定決心從小事開始行動，喝再多的雞湯聽再多人生至理，還是不會有什麼改變的。

以朱老的名言與君共勉：

凡此身應該做而且能夠做的事，決不推諉給別人；凡此時應該做而且能夠做的事，決不推延到將來；凡此地應該做而且能夠做的事，決不等待想像中更好的境地。
——朱光潛

你們都知道，

少壯不努力，老大徒傷悲
One who does not work hard in youth will grieve in vain in old age.

其實就這麼簡單一個道理。但是我給你是以下這段：

沒有人不愛惜他的生命，但很少人珍視他的時間。如果想在有生之年做一點什麼事，學一點什麼學問，充實自己，幫助別人，使生命成為有意義，不虛此生，那麼就不可浪費光陰。這道理人人都懂，可是很少人真能積極不懈的善於利用他的時間。

Time must not be wasted if you want to do your bit in your remaining years or acquire some useful knowledge to improve yourself and help others, so that your life may turn out to be significant and fruitful. All that is foolproof, yet few people really strive to make the best use of their time.
——梁實秋《時間即生命》

珍惜時間的名言有很多，而且很多都很精妙地傳達時間可惜、時間珍貴的道理。但是我最喜歡梁實秋先生的這幾句關於時間的論述。
因為當我們在討論珍惜時間的名言的時候，大多數人都能懂，所謂道理我都懂，但是還是過不好這一生，落不到實處和行動上。而梁實秋的這段話道破了這一點，很少有人不珍惜他的生命，而時間卻在被人們麻木不仁地浪費著。
所謂知易行難，也就是這樣。

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時間即生命 梁實秋最令人怵目驚心的一件事，是看著鐘錶上的秒針一下一下的移動，每移動一下就是表示我們的壽命已經縮短了一部分。再看看牆上掛著的可以一張張撕下的日曆，每天撕下一張就是表示我們的壽命又縮短了一天。因為時間即生命。沒有人不愛惜他的生命，但很少人珍視他的時間。如果想在有生之年做一點什麼事，學一點什麼學問，充實自己，幫助別人，使生命成為有意義，不虛此生，那麼就不可浪費光陰。這道理人人都懂，可是很少人真能積極不懈的善於利用他的時間。 我自己就是浪費了很多時間的一個人。我不打麻將，我不經常聽戲看電影，幾年中難得一次，我不長時間看電視，通常只看半個小時，我也不串門子閑聊天。有人問我：「那麼你大部分時間都做了些什麼呢？」我痛自反省，我發現，除了職務上的必須及人情上所不能免的活動之外，我的時間大部分都浪費了。我應該集中精力，讀我所未讀過的書，我應該利用所有時間，寫我所要寫的東西，但是我沒能這樣做。我的好多的時間都糊裡糊塗的混過去了，「少壯不努力，老大徒傷悲。」例如我翻譯莎士比亞，本來計劃於課餘之暇每年翻譯兩部，二十年即可完成，但是我用了三十年，主要的原因是懶。翻譯之所以完成，主要的是因為活得相當長久，十分驚險。翻譯完成之後，雖然仍有工作計劃，但體力漸衰，有力不從心之感。假使年輕的時候鞭策自己，如今當有較好或較多的表現。然而悔之晚矣。 再例如，作為一個中國人，經書不可不讀。我年過三十才知道讀書自修的重要。我披閱，我圈點，但是恆心不足，時作時輟。五十以學易，可以無大過矣，我如今年過八十，還沒有接觸過《易經》，說來慚愧。史書也很重要。我出國留學的時候，我父親買了一套同文石印的前四史，塞滿了我的行篋的一半空間，我在外國混了幾年之後又把前四史原封帶回來了。直到四十年後才鼓起勇氣讀了《通鑒》一遍。現在我要讀的書太多，深感時間有限。 無論做什麼事，健康的身體是基本條件。我在學校讀書的時候，有所謂「強迫運動」，我踢破過幾雙球鞋，打斷過幾隻球拍。因此僥倖維持下來最低限度的體力。老來打過幾年太極拳，目前則以散步活動筋骨而已。寄語年輕朋友，千萬要持之以恆的從事運動，這不是嬉戲，不是浪費時間。健康的身體是作人做事的真正的本錢。

Time is Life

Liang Shiqiu

It is most startling to hear a watch or clock clicking away the seconds, each click indicating the shortening of one"s life by a little bit. Likewise, with each page torn off the wall calendar, one"s life is shortened by another day. Time, therefore, is life. Nevertheless, few people treasure their time as much as their life. Time must not be wasted if you want to do your bit in your remaining years or acquire some useful knowledge to improve yourself and help others, so that your life may turn out to be significant and fruitful. All that is foolproof, yet few people really strive to make the best use of their time.

Personally, I am also a fritterer. I don"t play mahjong. I seldom go to the theatre or cinema-I go there maybe only once every few years. I seldom spend long hours watching TV- usually I watch TV for no more than 30 minutes at a sitting. Nor do I go visiting and gossiping from door to door. Some people asked me, "Then what do you do with most of your time?" Introspecting with remorse, I found that apart from the time earmarked from my job and unavoidable social activities, most of my time had been wasted. I should have concentrated my energies on reading whatever books I have not yet read. I should have utilized all my time in writing anything I want to write. But I"ve failed to do so. Very much of my time has been frittered away aimlessly. As the saying goes, "One who does not work hard in youth will grieve in vain in old age."

Take the translation of Shakespeare for example. I had initially planned to spend twenty years of my spare time in doing the translation, finishing two plays a year. But I spent 30 years instead, due primarily to my slothfulness. The whole project would probably had fallen through had it not for my fairly long life. After that I had other plans for work, but, because of my approaching senility, somehow I failed to do what I had wished to. Had Ispurred myself on in my youth, I would have done more and better work. Alas, it is too late to repent.

Another example. The reading of Chinese classics is a must for all Chinese. But it was not until I was over 30 that I came to realize the importance of self-study in the matter of classics. I did read carefully though, marking words and phrases for special attention with small circles and dots. But my efforts at self-study were off and on. Confucius says, "I shall be free of great faults if I can live long enough to begin the study of Yi at the age of 50." I feel ashamed to admit that I haven"t even touched Yi though I am now over 80. Chinese history books are equally important. When I was leaving China to study abroad, father brought a set of Tong Wen lithographic edition of the First Four Books of History, and crammed theminto my traveling box, taking up half of its space. Several years later, however, afterdrifting alone abroad, I returned home carrying with me the same books all unread. It was not until 40 years later that I plucked up enough courage to read through Tong Jian***. So many books still remain to read, and I much regret not having enough time to do it.

Whatever you do, you need a sound body first of all. In my school days, in response to the so-called "compulsory physical exercises", I went in for many sports at the expense of many pairs of sneakers and rackets, thus luckily building up a minimum of goodphysique. When I was approaching old age, I did tai ji quan( shadow boxing) for several years. Now I only do some walking exercises. Dear young friends, my advice to you is: Do physical exercises perseveringly. That has nothing to do with merry-making or time-wasting. Good health is the wherewithal for a successful life and career.

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哦′_&>`把他手機電腦藏起來，再送進全寄宿學校。

讓他去做放高利貸者，只有這類人才知道時間就是金錢！

告訴他時間不僅是生命，還是金錢，或許後者能打動他呢！

別把願望等成遺憾

你覺得是在浪費時間，可是別人並不覺得

因為你們價值觀不同，你覺得重要的事，別人覺得無所謂

你不可能要求所有人的價值觀都和你一致

所以還是要從你自身的認知上面找問題

勸君莫惜金縷衣，勸君更惜少年時

如果只是等待。那麼唯一發生變化的事情就是慢慢變老