如果你所學的不是你喜歡的專業,你會怎麼做?
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My laptop is down, so I can only use the PC in our office to reply which doesn"t support Chinese input and a head-up is my English usually carries a lot of grammar mistakes, hope you won"t mind and possibly correct me if you (and you all) will
This used to be a question that I kept asking myself when I was in college.
I"m not sure which year of college are you in right now, but it"s really good that you start to ask yourself this question and when you couldn"t figure it out yourself, you posted it here to hear other"s opinions:)Just to share a few personal thoughts here, hope they can help you to find the answer hidden in your own mind.
- Student, in my opinion, should be considered as an occupation as well as other "jobs". Therefore, you have the responsibility to do your best in whichever courses you should. The final grades or GPA doesn"t matter that much compared with doing your best, i.e., your initiative should be trying to develop your spirit while learning, not just merely focus on the grades.
- We all know it"s better to major in some area which we"re interested in, while many people are using INTERESTS as an excuse rather than a reason for not having achieved what they could in a certain area. This is a question you really need to ask yourself and think about: do you really dislike your major after you have done your best? If you ranked top in your major and really hold a very expert-like perspective of it which might be appreciated or amaze your professors in this area, and still, you really don"t like it, then quit, quit as soon as you can, and switch to some area you"re interested or which you think would be promising after your analysis and consideration.
- Again, when you look back on the paths you have covered, what matters most or what you might regret about, is not that you haven"t choose an area which you like the most, but rather, is that you haven"t done your best in it or simply just threw part of your life away doing nothing. I remember a word I saw the other day on a flyer of US Air Force: My deepest fear is that I"ll look back on my life and wonder what I did with it.
- Life consists of so many choices, some people may think that some of those would make a great shift in your life so we must be really really careful when dealing with them. But in my opinion, or as far as in college when what you choose may only affect mostly yourself not your family or colleagues profits, the importance of choices doesn"t matter that much. Or at least, few people can foresee what is the REAL right or wrong.
- Grasp those opportunities you can grasp, and just dig into them before you get drown. Good luck:)
這個問題我同樣思考了很久。從大二開始發現,於是修了雙學位。。可惜雙學位專業的我接觸後同樣沒那麼喜歡。現在大四,準備先找工作,再逐漸往自己喜歡的方向轉。提醒你一下,有沒有自己喜歡的事情很重要,如果你確定了自己喜愛的事業,放手去做吧~~~不然,就先好好的學自己的專業。
如果不能選我所愛,必將愛我所選。
問問自己,對你自己喜歡的專業,你做了什麼?
先說一下我自身的情況嘛,我學海洋漁業科學與技術。並不是太討厭學這專業,只不過在深圳找不到工作而已,然後自己覺得做外貿好,雙修了個國際貿易,感覺沒啥競爭力,再自學了個日語一級。到後來真正去工作(日語業務員)的時候覺得做的不怎麼開心,想換份工作,感覺挺折騰人滴。到最後覺得,找一份自己喜歡的工作,除非你非常了解,甚至做過(否則現實與理想差距太大)
再說,工作也會遇到許多不順心的事情,很容易讓你覺得這不是你想要的。讓自己喜歡你的專業,你的工作,時刻充滿熱情很重要。
能選擇的是,你工作的地方,選擇什麼樣的工作,過這怎麼樣的生活方式。說起來,幫人打工都差不多了,生活讓你現實了,錢多才是硬道理。無論選擇什麼都好,每當回顧自己奮鬥的身影,你才不會覺得後悔什麼的。我目前就處於這種情況。不喜歡本專業並不代表不喜歡和專業相關的一些課程,這個主要看老師講得怎麼樣,老師講得好,不喜歡照想可以聽得比較入神;不好的話,加上自己不喜歡,便是怎樣都懶得去聽。比如我學的專業是機械設計製造及其自動化,沒上大學前自己稀里糊塗地選了這個專業,後來學著學著發現自己對這不感興趣,也就沒有好好地去學了,大部分時間是學習了解自己喜歡、感興趣的東西。在這樣的情況下,大部分都是比較容易迷失方向,不知道自己應該學什麼、要什麼,可能職業和學業上還是有很大的一段差距的吧。我們應該做的應該是不斷去尋找,不斷地發現,就像喬布斯說過的那段話:Sometimes life hits you in the head with a brick. Don"t lose faith. I"m convinced that the only thing that kept me going was that I loved what I did. You"ve got to find what you love. And that is as true for your work as it is for your lovers. Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven"t found it yet, keep looking. Don"t settle. As with all matters of the heart, you"ll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on. So keep looking until you find it. Don"t settle.
只要能生存,給家人帶來生活的幸福和安全感,管喜歡不喜歡。
我覺得要根據你自己的情況來定。如果有機會學自己喜歡的也是可以的,但是如果不行的話就學著喜歡上自己現在的專業,培養自己的興趣,並把它學好。然後可以利用課餘時間自學自己喜歡的專業。
學的專業和你學的知識之間沒有什麼必然聯繫。不喜歡,就學自己喜歡的,去選自己喜歡的課,一般和講課老師溝通溝通會讓你上的。去學自己喜歡的知識,看自己喜歡的書。只要最後捫心自問,大學時代沒有虛度,最後畢業後能夠在社會上立足,又有什麼區別呢?
個人覺得大學裡沒幾個學的專業是自己喜歡的。為了生存,不喜歡也得學啊
有機會重新選擇的話 重來吧 沒有機會 慢慢培養感覺 喜歡上它
市場營銷畢業半年就開始干施工管理了,一直處在不斷眩暈和忙碌中,各種忙。。。補充一下,已過3年,依舊管理項目技術工作,去年拿到二級建造師!在魔都也活的有點面子了。
所以,請堅持自己的內心。
很多人都關心,我也來講講: 先引用: 俞敏洪:有立身之技+人品不差+深厚底蘊(每學年500本書)=理想 覃彪喜(《求職,從大一開始》《讀大學,究竟讀什麼》):大學是批判性思想確立之地,大學重不在本專業,在於你自學到什麼! (不是原話,按理解寫)
然後,我講幾句:不管你是遇到具體問題,還是乾脆就茫然,腦袋懵了,請先考慮,或許問自己,我希望做的工作是什麼,從結果出發,再考慮你缺什麼?
@fmsbi 說的不錯 要發現,這裡的發現是發現真正的自己,並追隨「自己」,過這一生! 希望對你有幫助。大一好好學習轉專業或者是考研換專業,難道你想一輩子做你完全不喜歡的事?
個人覺得專業只要適合自己就好了,其他的要是喜歡都可以學下去。大學專業只是給你一個平台,靠自己去拓展。
有時候非專業可以比專業學得更好……
我覺得,要是你現在的專業會讓你以後有很大的發展,你可以努力去接受,而不是排斥,當你有足夠的實力,地位的時候,你可以去選擇你喜歡的。但是你要是覺得這個專業沒什麼發展前途,你就放棄吧,做自己不喜歡的會讓自己生活的不開心,很糾結,放棄有時候會收穫更多,祝你好運~~
那就看你學的什麼專業,如果說就業前景好的話,一般如果是我,我會考慮到以後,拿現在的專業和自己喜歡的專業所比較未來的潛力,看哪個在未來能帶給自己更大的利益和發展空間,畢竟以後站住了腳。隨時都可以干自己喜歡的事情。還有,現在就都是從零開始業的,並不一定要專業對口,如果說是為了自己所喜歡的工作區選擇某個專業的話無可厚非,但是如果專業不是你所喜歡的職業的相關專業,我覺得我還是會學下去,因為對自己來說多了一條路。對於專業和興趣我比較理性的思考,雖然有關係,但是一切為自己好,今天就業指導老師上課給我們做了一道算術題,人一輩子活到80歲一共要花去374W。這是最低的預算,如過你和你媳婦一個月2000的工資的話,那麼還查100多W好像,所以我覺的如果實好的專業就繼續學吧,畢竟未來有出路,現在已經不是舊中國,抱著一腔熱血就有飯吃的年代,這是一個學歷至上,能力至上的年代。可以說你的專業吃香,在人生的路上就多了一輛自行車。但是如果自己的專業不好自己也不喜歡,我覺得我會果斷報第二學歷,就是第二本科,但是這個專業也不是完全放棄,拿到畢業證,逼近以後的社會需要各種人才,每個發展時期的人才需求和方向都是不一樣的。所以說不定哪天就有用了。沒有冷門的專業,只是時機未到。社會就是這樣多一手準備就多一個機遇。就多一個未來!
沒有完美的專業,只有你自己知道往哪裡走。
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