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盧平真的愛唐克斯嗎?

pottermore說盧平喜歡莉莉,後來盧平娶唐克斯,是一衝動的結果嗎?感覺盧平沒那麼特別喜歡唐克斯……


盧平非常愛唐克斯,盧平喜歡過莉莉,但僅僅是學生時代的好感與一時迷戀。

1. 盧平對莉莉的好感
阿方索導演的《囚徒》電影里有一段改編恨深入人心,盧平和哈利在橋上聊天,對就是《死聖下》電影里納威和西莫炸掉的橋。當時這個改動被很多哈迷詬病,怎麼搞得盧平像是喜歡哈利他媽一樣,結果羅琳阿姨說,盧平真的喜歡過莉莉。
羅琳訪談里的原話是:
Lupin was very fond of Lily. We』ll put it like that, but I wouldn』t want anyone to run around thinking that he competed with James for her. She was a popular girl, and that is relevant. But I think you』ve seen that already. She was a bit of a catch.
渣翻譯:
盧平曾經非常喜歡莉莉。我這麼說吧,我不想讓你們產生誤解。盧平從來沒有為了莉莉和詹姆競爭,她是個受歡迎的女孩,盧平喜歡她也和這個有關係。我覺得你們已經看出來了,她當時非常搶手。
我覺得盧平對莉莉遠遠談不上愛,羅琳也沒有用love,僅僅是青春時期的好感和對美好的嚮往。莉莉當時是萬人迷,就像後來的金7妮,不僅漂亮,還性格好、勇敢、有正義感、有天分、雙商具高……是個在人群里非常耀眼的女巫。盧平卻一直很自卑,因為狼人身份;因為從來沒想到像小天狼星和詹姆這麼耀眼的人再知道真相之後還會和他是朋友……他被莉莉吸引也是很正常的事,但這種喜愛之情對盧平來說絕對沒有和詹姆的友誼重要。

2.盧平對唐克斯的愛
盧平真正愛的人只有唐克斯。
pottermore的原文:

Marriage

As Lord Voldemort once again gained ascendancy, the old resistance regrouped and Remus found himself once more part of the Order of the Phoenix.

This time, the group included an Auror who had been too young to belong to the Order during its first incarnation. Clever, brave and funny, pink-haired Nymphadora Tonks was a protégée of Alastor 『Mad-Eye』 Moody, the toughest and most grizzled Auror of them all.

Remus, so often melancholy and lonely, was first amused, then impressed, then seriously smitten by the young witch. He had never fallen in love before. If it had happened in peacetime, Remus would have simply taken himself off to a new place and a new job, so that he did not have to endure the pain of watching Tonks fall in love with a handsome, young wizard in the Auror office, which was what he expected to happen. However, this was war; they were both needed in the Order of the Phoenix, and nobody knew what the next day would bring. Remus felt justified in remaining exactly where he was, keeping his feelings to himself but secretly rejoicing every time somebody paired him with Tonks on some overnight mission.

It had never occurred to Remus that Tonks could return his feelings because he had become so used to considering himself unclean and unworthy. One night when they lay in hiding outside a known Death Eater』s house, after a year of increasingly warm friendship, Tonks made an idle remark about one of their fellow Order members (『He』s still handsome, isn』t he, even after Azkaban?』). Before he could stop himself, Remus had replied bitterly that he supposed she had fallen for his old friend (『He always got the women.』). At this, Tonks became suddenly angry. 『You』d know perfectly well who I』ve fallen for, if you weren』t too busy feeling sorry for yourself to notice.』

Remus』s immediate response was a happiness he had never experienced in his life, but this was extinguished almost at once by a sense of crushing duty. He had always known that he could not marry and run the risk of passing on his painful, shameful condition. He therefore pretended not to understand Tonks, which did not fool her at all. Wiser than Remus, she was sure that he loved her, but that he was refusing to admit it out of mistaken nobility. However, he avoided any further excursions with her, barely talked to her, and started volunteering for the most dangerous missions. Tonks became desperately unhappy, convinced not only that the man she loved would never willingly spend time with her again, but also that he might walk to his death rather than admit his feelings.

Remus and Tonks both fought Lord Voldemort and his Death Eaters in the Department of Mysteries, a battle that resulted in the public exposure of Voldemort』s return. The loss of the last of his school friends during this battle did nothing to soften Remus』s increasingly self-destructive attitude. Tonks could only watch in despair as he volunteered to spy for the Order, leaving to live among fellow werewolves to try to persuade them to Dumbledore』s side. In doing this, he was exposing himself to the possible reprisals of the werewolf who had changed his life forever, Fenrir Greyback.

Remus came face-to-face with both Greyback and Tonks at Hogwarts barely a year later, when the Order clashed with Death Eaters within the castle. During this battle, Remus lost yet another person he had loved: Albus Dumbledore. Dumbledore had been adored by every member of the Order of the Phoenix, but to Remus, he had represented the sort of kindness, tolerance and understanding that he had received from nobody in the world outside his parents and his three best friends, and had been the only man ever to offer him a position within normal wizarding society.

In the aftermath of the bloody fight, inspired by Fleur Delacour』s protestation of enduring love for Bill Weasley, who had been savaged by Greyback, Tonks made a brave, public declaration of her feelings for Remus, who was forced to admit the strength of his love for her. In spite of continuing misgivings that he was acting selfishly, Remus married Tonks quietly in the north of Scotland, with witnesses taken from the local wizarding tavern. He continued to fear that the stigma attached to him would infect his wife and wished for no fanfare around their union; he swung constantly between elation that he was married to the woman of his dreams and terror of what he might have brought upon them both.

因為太長了,我又很懶,就把豆瓣上的翻譯粘貼過來了,侵刪:
婚姻

伏地魔再一次崛起時,原來的抵抗力量也重新聚集起來,萊姆斯又成了鳳凰社的一員。

這一回,鳳凰社吸納了一名上次成立時還太過年輕的傲羅——尼法朵拉·唐克斯,她聰明、勇敢又風趣,有一頭粉紅色的頭髮,是「瘋眼漢」阿拉斯托·穆迪的門生。穆迪則是傲羅里最強悍,也最年長,最厲害的一個。

常常憂鬱孤獨的萊姆斯一開始覺得這個年輕的女巫很有趣,後來對她刮目相看,再後來深深地愛上了她。他以前從來沒墜入過愛河。要是這發生在和平時期,萊姆斯會直接離開去一個新的地方,找一份新的工作,這樣他就不必忍受痛苦,眼看著唐克斯如他預料的那樣愛上傲羅辦公室里某個英俊年輕的巫師。可那是在戰爭時期,鳳凰社需要他們倆,而且沒人知道明天會發生什麼。萊姆斯覺得自己有理由留在原地哪兒也不去,他把自己的感情埋在心底,可每次有人派他和唐克斯一起在夜裡執行任務他都暗自高興。

萊姆斯從沒想到唐克斯會回應他的感情,因為他總覺得自己不幹凈,也配不上她。一年的磨合讓他們的友誼漸漸升溫,有天晚上他們一起躺著躲在一個知名的食死徒家屋外,唐克斯隨口議論了兩句鳳凰社的一名同事(「就算在阿茲卡班呆過,他還是很帥,不是嗎?」)萊姆斯沒來得及住口就幽幽地說,他料想唐克斯喜歡上了他的老朋友(「他總是很有女人緣。」)聽了這話,唐克斯突然非常生氣,說道:「要是你沒那麼忙只顧自怨自艾而注意不到,你就應該很清楚我喜歡的到底是誰。」

萊姆斯第一反應是感到前所未有的幸福,可幸福感幾乎立馬就被沉重的責任感澆滅了。他向來知道自己不能結婚,也不能冒險把自己痛苦而可恥的病傳給下一代。所以他假裝沒懂唐克斯的意思,可那根本就騙不了她。唐克斯比萊姆斯更聰明,她可以肯定萊姆斯喜歡她,可是出於某些高尚但錯誤的原因卻拒絕承認。儘管如此,他開始逃避,不再和她一起出行,也幾乎不和她說話,並自告奮勇去執行最危險的任務。唐克斯難過極了,她確信她愛的人再也不會樂意和她在一起,而且他寧死也不願承認自己的感情。

萊姆斯和唐克斯兩人都在神秘事務司里參與了抗擊伏地魔和食死徒,這場戰鬥令伏地魔的回歸大白於天下。戰鬥中萊姆斯失去了他最後一個同窗好友,可那一點也沒緩和他越來越嚴重的自毀傾向。唐克斯只能絕望地看著他自願為鳳凰社當眼線,去和狼人住在一起,試圖說服他們加入鄧布利多的陣營。這樣做他就將自己置於被狼人報復的危險之中,那個狼人正是改變他人生的芬里爾·格雷伯克。

僅僅一年後,鳳凰社在城堡里和食死徒交戰時,萊姆斯在霍格沃茨面對面遭遇了格雷伯克和唐克斯。這次戰鬥中,萊姆斯又失去了一位他所愛的人:阿不思·鄧布利多。鄧布利多受到每個鳳凰社成員的愛戴,但對於萊姆斯而言,他代表了善良、寬容和理解。除了鄧布利多,萊姆斯只在他父母和三個最好的朋友那裡感受過這種關愛,而且鄧布利多也是唯一一個在正常巫師社會裡提供給他工作崗位的人。

那場血腥的戰鬥過後,比爾·韋斯萊被格雷伯克嚴重咬傷,但芙蓉·德拉庫爾仍表明了她不渝的愛,唐克斯受到激勵,也勇敢地公開表白了她對萊姆斯的感情,萊姆斯被迫承認了自己對她的愛有多深。儘管他仍有重重疑慮,覺得自己十分自私,萊姆斯還是悄悄地在蘇格蘭北部和唐克斯結婚了,由當地一家巫師小酒店裡的人們做見證。他依舊害怕自己的烙印會影響到他的妻子,不希望他們的結合讓太多人知道。他常常在欣喜和恐懼間搖擺,喜的是他娶了自己的夢中人,懼的是他可能給他們兩人帶來的後果。

是反伏地魔運動把盧平和唐克斯聚在一起的,一開始盧平覺得唐克斯很有趣,然後佩服她,最後深深地愛上了他。盧平從小到大都一直在自卑、猶豫。我無法想像伏地魔倒台後的那12年他是怎麼過的,當時所有人都以為小天狼星害死了詹姆、莉莉和彼得,等於一個最好的朋友殺死了另外兩個他最好的朋友,而友情一直都是盧平的所有。他回到霍格沃茨,終於了解了真相,事情好轉了那麼一點點,短短兩年後他僅剩的好朋友也離開了,盧平一直都被充滿歡樂的人吸引,詹姆和小天狼星就是製造歡樂的人,唐克斯也是,《鳳凰社》里她第一次登場,笨手笨腳,每十分鐘就要絆倒什麼東西,變形逗人開心,總是很活潑輕快,又頂著一頭泡泡糖色頭髮。
有著共同的追求和奮鬥目標、都在黑魔法防禦術上非常出色,一個被歡樂吸引,一個全身每個毛孔都散發著快樂的氣息,但愛情往往講不清理由。
我覺得最能體現出盧平真的非常愛唐克斯、只愛過唐克斯的是,盧平因為唐克斯才真正的得到了救贖。
盧平其實並不是一個勇敢的人,甚至有點懦弱,他為了鳳凰社出生入死,從來不拒絕危險的任務,去狼人內部當姦細,甚至有點自毀傾向,因為他不怕這些,對他來說算不了什麼。盧平害怕不被接納、害怕被排斥、害怕面對自己的感情,就轉身投入最危險的工作。小天狼心死後他去卧底,唐克斯懷孕了他要跟著哈利三人,因為他不敢面對。
哈利給自己曾經的老師好好上了一課,盧平也意識到了自己真正最重要的責任在哪,終於能夠克服一直以來的心病,出於對唐克斯的愛。


盧平是愛唐克斯的,但他同樣走不出他自己。


如果不愛,那麼盧平身為一個狼人,和自己不愛的人結婚且生了孩子,那麼他就是一個自私的人渣。我不覺得盧平是這樣的人。我相信他在臨死前像詹姆一樣,勇敢地擋在了心愛的人前面。


我懷疑過幾天知乎上就會有這樣的問題:詹姆真的愛莉莉嗎?哈利真的愛金妮嗎?


love is a touch and yet not a touch.
如果不愛,哪來那麼多顧慮。


盧平是一個真正的格蘭芬多。你說,他不愛一個妹子會和人家結婚么?為了這段感情,他甚至戰勝了自己從小到大沒有甩脫的自卑和恐懼。就醬


謝邀。

不愛

至少不是激情澎湃的愛情,反而是出於一種感激所產生的『愛』的錯覺。

很遺憾,這就是我對萊姆斯的個人情感的看法。儘管這和其他答案以及pottermore給出的官方相悖,但是這樣的問題,永遠也不會有固定的答案。這源於每個人的閱歷、情感經歷的不同而產生的看法。

這個世界上真正完全兩情相悅、愛情完美的婚姻恐怕所佔比例不多,所以千百年來歌頌和追求熱烈愛情的篇章不勝枚舉,因為稀少,所以珍貴。

盧平與唐克斯,是HP典型的拉郎成官配。

與前面一個答案正相反的看法:如果愛,哪來那麼多顧慮?

早在HP5剛出版的時候,就有很多人支持這對CP。原因無他,我們都很愛萊姆斯,希望他能幸福。而唐克斯也是頗受歡迎的未婚女青年,所以很多人支持他倆。儘管在HP5,根本看不出他倆彼此有任何羅曼蒂克的意思。他們之間共有的,只是幾次鳳凰社執行任務中一同出生入死的經歷,也是和其他人共同在一起的。

而羅琳顯然在HP5後看到這倆這麼多人拉,索性做個月老。

HP6出版後,唐克斯就已經因為萊姆斯的逃避而日漸消瘦。從女性的角度看,她愛上萊姆斯很正常。儘管以唐克斯的搖滾風,或許和小天狼星這樣的男人更合得來(哈利和萊姆斯也這麼想)。但反過來從萊姆斯的角度呢?

基本上無論是誰,萊姆斯都能善良溫和地友好對待(敵人除外)。正如PM所言,萊姆斯因為自身的情況,形成了他自卑、小心拒人千里之外的性格。學生時代他能愛上莉莉也很正常,那個時候毫無疑問莉莉是艷壓群芳,吸引所有男人的目光。而莉莉顯然也和鹿犬一樣善待萊姆斯,把他當成最好的朋友之一,傾心相交。而從萊姆斯的性格看,他對所有善待他、不因為他的狼人身份而歧視他的人都感恩戴德,上至鄧布利多,下至哈利他們,他都十分感激,為自己能被這些人所接納而高興。

萊姆斯最想要的是——接納

他渴望得到尊重,在霍格沃茨工作的時候小心地討學生和教員們的喜歡,當然除了斯萊特林一夥外他確實相當受歡迎。我們不難看出他很愛哈利,很愛鹿犬,很愛鄧布利多。

但是他愛唐克斯么?

看到HP6的時候,我也以為他愛唐克斯。但是等HP7出版後,我發現他並不愛唐克斯,這一點或許他自己都沒發現。

萊姆斯無疑是聰明的人,如果他愛唐克斯,他就會明白唐克斯最需要的是什麼。他離開唐克斯想和哈利一走了之,表面上看他是想逃避自己的身份給妻子帶來的傷害,但是這根本就是個借口。

如果他的這個想法這麼堅定,他就永遠不會接受唐克斯的求婚。

萊姆斯縱然一萬個好,但礙於他的狼人身份,結婚成家基本就是幻想而已,這他很明白。所以當一個很不錯的唐克斯出現向他示愛,他無疑是驚喜和感動的,內心充滿了被接納、被認可的自豪感,尤其是唐克斯不在意他的狼人身份。

但這證明不了他愛唐克斯,或者是因為唐克斯的魅力而愛她。

他對唐克斯的求愛反應冷淡,除了他自卑的原因外,如果說不含有他確實不愛唐克斯的原因,那麼這個人未免過於失真了。

如果萊姆斯愛唐克斯很熱烈,他不會反應這麼冷淡,最後拿自己的狼人身份當擋箭牌。真正的愛情不會對心愛之人如此不顧一切的表白反應這麼扭捏、這麼勉強的。

他或許愛她,源於感恩。

唐克斯在萊姆斯眼裡,恐怕也是個孩子而已。

其實這也就足夠了,對么?

萊姆斯在HP7的出走,正是因為這份感情的基礎並不穩定。而十七歲的哈利無疑是不懂事的,理解不了複雜的情感問題,理解不了世界上的婚姻是多種多樣的。他出言傷害萊姆斯的感情,個人覺得很不舒服,但也只能歸結於哈利年輕不懂事。世界上會有比萊姆斯更愛小泰迪的人么,這裡真的輪不到哈利來教訓。

但萊姆斯無疑是負責的好人,所以他回到了唐克斯的身邊,全心全意愛她,因為她是他的家人

希望盧平夫婦來世幸福吧。

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