分享真的讓人感到更加快樂么？

12-06

不管是微博朋友圈還是知乎等等社交軟體，其實都有個關鍵詞——分享，
這些APP的興起，說明大家都非常樂於分享，也常聽說「分享使快樂加倍」這樣的話，請問真的是這樣么？有沒有相關的科學研究和依據？

謝邀……
下面引用的是我教科書上的內容……研究什麼的真的挺多的……

Consider a recent program of research that used multiple methods to examine the
hypothesis that giving to others makes us happier (Aknin et al., 2013; Dunn Norton,
2013). Elizabeth Dunn and her colleagues first conducted a survey to test this hypothesis (Dunn et al., 2008). In an initial correlational study, they asked a nationally representative sample of 632 Americans to rate their general happiness and to estimate
what percentage of their income they spent on bills, on themselves personally, on gifts
for others, and on donations to charity. Spending money on gifts for themselves was
not related to respondents』 happiness, but spending on other people was. Because this
result is a correlation, we can』t be sure whether spending on others caused people to be
happier, or whether unhappy people simply tend also to be less generous (and might be

made even less happy if they spent money on others). The researchers then conducted a
longitudinal study of people who received an unexpected bonus at work and measured
their happiness both before the bonus and six to eight weeks later. Those who had
spent more of their bonus on other people experienced a significant boost in happiness;
those who had spent more on themselves did not. This longitudinal study allowed the
researchers to control for initial levels of happiness, but it still does not nail down a
cause-and-effect relationship (besides chronic happiness levels, there might have been
something else different about the people who chose to spend their money on others).

So the researchers conducted an experimental study in which they asked a group of
college students to rate their happiness in the morning, then gave them an envelope
containing $5 or $20, and randomly assigned them to spend the money either on themselves or on others (by buying someone a gift or giving the money to charity). At the
end of the day, the students again reported how happy they were. Those who had spent
their money on themselves had not changed since the morning, but those who spent
their money on others were happier. Interestingly, when asked to predict what would
make them happier, other students (incorrectly) thought that they would be happiest if
they got $20 to spend on themselves. Perhaps, one could argue, the experiment was not

natural because participants might have guessed that the researchers were interested
in their happiness and had obviously given them money between two measurements
of happiness. However, because the results converge nicely with the other two correlational studies, showing a similar relationship in natural contexts, the researchers could
be much more confident than if they had used only one method.

Kenrick, Douglas; Neuberg, Steven L.; Cialdini, Robert B. (2014-10-23). Social Psychology: Goals in Interaction, 6/e (Page 26). Pearson. Kindle Edition.

就這樣……有興趣的可以去查詢相關研究……

分享後收穫的優越感更讓人快樂！

分享確實能讓人快樂，但是只能要求自己不能要求別人。有句話說得好，所有的標準你只能律己而不能律人。否則就是在道德綁架！

分享所帶來的快樂主要有兩個方面。
一個方面正如有答主說的認同感，也就是自己的認識得到別人認同，這種認同意味著你自己的知識和經驗的確有用，你以後也會有這個自信去使用這些知識和經驗。
另一方面就是相互幫助帶來的集體能力的提升，而這個集體能力的提升又會對自身有利的可能而產生的愉悅感。

讓人感覺到快樂的不是分享，而是分享後獲得的反饋、認同。
試想你興緻勃勃的在朋友圈分享一件事情，你有八百個好友，卻沒有收到一個贊或者一條評論，只怕你反而會有一些失落。
獨樂了不如眾樂樂。

如果分享不能使人快樂，那麼網上那麼多av是從哪裡來的?

錯！分享後遭人嫉妒唾罵你有快感？

看人吧，有些人樂於分享也樂於接受新鮮事物，就比如我吧，我不求有所回報，幫助到了別人我就覺得快樂了。
我覺得分享更是不同知識層面的遞進，每個人都有他的獨特之處，可能你沒看到的他看到了，那「分享」就會讓我們的內容更加多元化更豐富，分享就是1+1&>2

分享一件喜悅的事情可以複製喜悅且傳達給他人，分享一件悲傷的事情可以分解悲傷減輕自己的負擔。

這就是分享的本質吧