有哪些關於家庭暴力的歌曲?

我就知道一個《爸,我回來了》,在網上找不到其他的,求推薦。


蝦米:She Sits on the Table - Tom Paxton

網易:Tom Paxton - She Sits on the Table

格萊美終身成就獎得主 Tom Paxton 在1980年的作品,是關於家庭暴力的歌里我覺得角度最刁鑽,也印象最深刻的一首。。這歌沒直接寫家庭暴力,而是描寫了一個女人在經受家暴之後的經歷:

同為女人的小護士,雖然同情她的遭遇,卻並沒有勸她離開渣男,而只是讓她通過大哭一場來發泄(go on, it"s alright to cry);

年輕有為的醫生,看著挺帥挺有型,檢查後卻反而詰問遍體鱗傷(every last inch is sore)的女人,覺得她一定是做了什麼傷天害理的事情才「活該」被自己的男人胖揍(what did you do to deserve such a beating from him);

作為她老公朋友的警察,則對女人很是不耐煩,並且覺得男人打他是因為「覺得她是自己的女人」,所以女人應該暗自慶幸、死心塌地才是(isn"t she secretly glad for a man who keeps her in her place)。

而女人自己也沒有半點要離開渣男的意思,只是想著當初甜蜜期的男人對她有多好,傻傻地相信男人本質並不壞,而且早晚有一天會變好(he never meant it, he will change someday, oh, how he used to love me so)。甚至被打成那樣了還猶豫要不要報案,因為「家醜不可外揚」。

整首歌就是白描,簡單的曲調,凝練的語言,平淡的敘述,不修飾,不煽情,但是對男權社會和直男癌的諷刺可以說是春秋筆法、入木三分,聽了以後給人一種深深的無力感,甚至對主人公有種「哀其不幸,怒其不爭」的感覺。。可以說是非常經典了嗯。

She sits on the table in a dress made of paper,
Diplomas all over the wall.
One university, one school of medicine,
She"s overwhelmed by it all.
The nurse is all sympathy, voice of experience,
"Let"s have a look at that eye.
It"s going to look bad for a week, maybe more.
Go on, darling, it"s all right to cry."

"How can I leave him?" she is crying.
"What could I do? Where would I go?
He didn"t mean it, he will change someday.
Oh, God, how he used to love me so."

The doctor is busy, his manner professional.
She finds she must look at the floor.
He looks at her eye, at her ribs and her arm,
And it seems every last inch is sore.
The doctor is handsome, he smells of cologne,
And his figure"s athletically slim.
He speaks disapprovingly, "What did you do
To deserve such a beating from him?"

"How can I leave him?" she is crying.
"What could I do? Where would I go?
He didn"t mean it, he will change someday.
Oh, God, how he used to love me so."

The policeman is waiting outside in the corridor.
He speaks to her as to a child.
He"s friends with her husband, he"s angry with her,
And he asks if there"ll be charges filed.
She says she"s not sure, she needs time to recover.
She feels beaten down in disgrace.
The policeman asks, isn"t she secretly glad
For a man who"ll keep her in her place?

"How can I leave him?" she is crying.
"What could I do? Where would I go?
He didn"t mean it, he will change someday.
Oh, God, how he used to love me so.
He didn"t mean it, he will change someday.
Oh, God, how he used to love me so."

Songs Re Violence/Abuse to Women,這個鏈接里有很多關於家暴主題的歌。


爸 我回來了 周杰倫的


Kelly Clarkson的Because of you 算嗎?


吉祥三寶算么


妹妹背著洋娃娃


Candyman - Siouxsie and the Banshees
Crawling - Linkin Park
Janie"s Got A Gun - Aerosmith
Revolver- Rage Against The Machine


不要和陌生人說話片尾曲《終於》

這是在哪裡
不是想像的開始
走不出黑色夜空
脆弱中無力的堅持

痛的掩飾
淚的痕迹
用盡情感去奢侈
也不能換取謊言的終止

我和我的心
終於醒在傷過之後
就算殘存一些牽掛
從此不再向虛偽祈求
我是我自己
終於醒在愛過之後
就算未來一無所知
從此不再被冰雪穿透

總沒有預感
融入陌生的真實
找不出逃脫的理由
漂泊隨時會迷失
痛的掩飾
淚的痕迹
沉默了所有心事
卻不能阻止悲哀的消失

我和我的心
終於醒在傷過之後
就算殘存一些牽掛
從此不再向虛偽祈求
我是我自己
終於醒在愛過之後
就算未來一無所知
從此不再被冰雪穿透
我和我的心
終於醒在傷過之後
就算殘存一些牽掛
從此不再向虛偽祈求
我是我自己
終於醒在愛過之後
就算未來一無所知
從此不再被冰雪穿透
我和我的心
終於醒在傷過之後
就算殘存一些牽掛
從此不再向虛偽祈求
我是我自己
終於醒在愛過之後
就算未來一無所知
從此不再被冰雪穿透


Eminem-kim 太暴力。。。


《Luka》 -- Suzanne Vega

講述了一個遭遇家庭暴力的兒童,
歌詞是小孩的自述。


張楚的《姐姐》裡面巧妙的提到過。


《Life is a Struggle》宋岳庭的,什麼都有裡面。。。


By the grace of god katy Perry


eminem-love the way you lie.


eminem的「Stan」算么…… 哈哈


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